I have a girl, she would have only one baby....
2007-01-15 08:35:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
LOL, SORRY
2007-01-15 09:18:20 · update #1
Well if you are old enough to get married. I hope that you can not reproduce, since the off spring you have will have the lack of knowledge you show in your grammar.
LOL
When I are married? WTF
You mean when I am married.
It depends. If you are a democrat, and I assume you are, thus the lack of brain power.... then you will probably want to have about 15 children. That way the government will send you, your welfare checks based on the number of children you have.
If you are a Republican, then you might understand that the number of children you have, is directly related to the number of children you can support yourself, without the aid of government. So only you and your spouse can decide how many are best for you, at the time you decide to have children.
FYI
It costs about $300,000.00 to properly raise one child from birth to age 21. Depending on how much you earn, how many would you want? Go ahead, add it up. Diapers for 3 or 4 years, formula for a year, food, clothes, books, tuition, baby sitters, gas, car, college, spending money, sports, sports equipment, birthday gifts, friends birthday gifts, OMG. 300,000.00 might be an outdated figure by the time you are ready for kids.
2007-01-15 08:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It has to be a personal decision. I was 6 years apart from my sister and she moved out early so I grew up in a situation similar to that of an only child with a close aunt, and I loved it. I never felt lonely or anything like that. Now that I am married, I want a lot of kids, but my husband only wants a maximum of three. My guess is that we will end up with four and that will be it. There are so many factors: financial, emotional, physical, your community, your lifestyle, what you are willing and unwilling to sacrifice etc. My husband and I want to be able to pay for at least 2 years of the kids university, so that they will have to learn to be independent but not as soon as they graduate, and because of this we can't have the 8 kids I want because we don't have the income.
2007-01-15 16:47:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is confusing, what you wrote...
If you mean "how many children are best to have in a marriage" - there is no best answer. Most families seem to do well with 2-3. I don't think 1 is very good usually, since they grow up alone. 4 or more is great if the family can handle it. Zero if the people would rather not be parents.
To each their own.
2007-01-15 16:41:47 · answer #3 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my friend we planed on 2 but had 5 before we found out what caused it.We are a very very happy family.However many you do have they will all be equal loved you wouldn't give up even a mistake or unplanned baby.Good luck and love them all.WE sure do.I wouldn't care if there were 5 more.
2007-01-15 16:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by I'm Jerry 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 is pretty good , a big family always end up with alot of pblms so a few kids u can set straight is better then alot of kids running around that u can control or u just want some peace and quit from all the kids screaming ..
2007-01-15 18:23:59 · answer #5 · answered by amal L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one is a bad idea coz i am the only child for my parents....u ve advantages as well as disadvantages of being a single child....i suggest 2 children in a family....the combination can go be anything like...2 girls,2 boys and a girl and a boy...twins wud be lovely...dont u think so.....this is just my opinion...all the best
2007-01-15 16:45:14 · answer #6 · answered by blue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion 2 seems to be idea because then they have each other in good times and in bad times and it is easy to split stuff 50/50.
2007-01-15 16:50:08 · answer #7 · answered by Tgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
11 is the best, because you Can make a football team.
2007-01-15 19:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1 or 2 kids are plenty!
2007-01-15 16:45:11 · answer #9 · answered by wendyhannan0130 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
12 children is appropriate
2007-01-16 01:29:15 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋