i am 18 years old and have recently lost my virginity. I have had sex 4 times after that, but it has not been very enjoyable. it just feels kind of wierd. my boyfriend is experienced and size is not the problem either. maybe it is because im not totally comfortable with it yet? does anyone know if this is normal?
2007-01-15 08:07:48 · 11 answers · asked by jenny s 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
this is normal, sometimes you have to get use to something new like this, for men its easy for them to enjoy women sometimes have to work on it, if you don't feel comfortable then don't have sex right now you are still young you don't have to have the stress in your life! Maybe you are worried? It is harder to enjoy sex with worry of pregnancy, or getting caught etc. Thats why married couples have better sex :-)
2007-01-15 08:18:22 · answer #1 · answered by Ms.DaSilva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not abnormal, especially given your proximity to being a virgin. I would offer this for advice - not an answer - SLOW DOWN. Use more foreplay and maybe concentrate less on the sex at first and more on the build-up to the sex - see what happens then - do you want to have it? Sometimes sex can be a let-down if not brought about the right way.
And also, your boyfriend being "experienced" is a very general statement which does nothing to describe your problem.
I say more foreplay. Best of luck.
2007-01-15 16:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by mygrundle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that the reason you aren't comfortable having sex with you boyfriend is that you aren't ready for it yet. tell him that you aren't comfortable and see what he says. it might be a good idea to wait until you think you are really ready for it before you have sex again.
2007-01-15 16:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by crazyboutsoccer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its the person your with? Not trying to be mean... My first time was no great experience. But after that it got better and better : )
2007-01-15 19:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by One Sexy Chic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear be patient and have him to do more foreplay that really feels good to you. If you need to help him that's O K too. Patience for you both and it will get much, much, better.
2007-01-15 16:20:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its normal and yes your not going to be comfortable with it for awhile. women usually dont Peek into that "comfort" zone your talking about until their mid 20's
2007-01-15 16:13:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is normal for u to feeel this way because i felt that way when i broke my virginity.i didnt have sex for almost 8 months after that.it just felt weird and meaningless.
2007-01-15 16:23:38 · answer #7 · answered by marsha w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it can be normal. Emotionally you are probably holding back. You may also feel guilt for losing your virginity.
2007-01-15 16:11:45 · answer #8 · answered by kallmetigger 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it totaly normal u just need to get used to it.
2007-01-15 16:12:07 · answer #9 · answered by Mario diaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah just its the first few times then it'll be better
2007-01-15 16:11:49 · answer #10 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋