In all seriousness.
I have had boyfriends with smaller members and had sex with them regularly without any problems, persistant pain or anything like that.
I recently had a "one night stand" and was surprised at how large the guy was (maybe like 8 inches, but thick like a coke can). When we did the deed it was pleasurable to a new degree but also very painful. The pain seemed more related to the amount that it went in, not how thick it was.
Will the vagina "learn to accomodate" a bigger penis after having one more frequently, or is there a limit to the length it will untimately go in.
I already do understand that the vagina will expand for wider things (i.e. childbirth), but I am worried about the whole length issue. Is this something that will always bring me some degree of pain or am I just not used to it?
Thanks.
2007-01-15
07:45:52
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The answer to your question is "yes" and "no".
"Yes" in that you can adapt to the relative size of the member, and there are techniques that you can execute to relieve some of the pain (lube takes on a whole new degree of importance) like relaxing, proper timing, etc. that will ease some of the pressure of the penis size. However, do not compare this to pregnancy, which is involved with a whole slew of hormones that give the vagina and uterus ridiculous elastic properties. So to some degree, adapting to this can certainly be done and you can enjoy the sex.
However, certain things like "casual sex", quickies, and impromptu (unplanned) sex are pretty much out. Trying to push a large penis into a dry girl and try to go off of her natural lubrication until she becomes aroused enough to produce more works well with smaller penises, but is pretty much never going to work with larger ones. If you attempt to do so, the sex will mostly be unproductive and painful. Anal sex can also be relatively uncomfortable or dangerous, as penises like that can do serious damage.
Otherwise, it is largely up to the communication between yourself and the male to ensure that the penis is giving more pleasure than pain. Some girls love larger penises, and some find them extremely uncomfortable. Most are somewhere in between. It's a matter of preference.
2007-01-15 08:03:43
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answered by christophermalachite 3
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2016-05-22 07:27:07
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answered by Stacey 3
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OH...OH...OH...OH! So glad you asked this question! Lol.... I asked my ob-gyn Dr the same question about 22 years ago. My girlfriend was obsessed with the larger guys and my experiences had been that it was too painful. He said the vagina is a muscle and it does expand to accommodate a large sized member. It all stretches, including when they hit the back wall. As to your last question....Will you get used to it..... You probably would if you stayed with the same partner. I say probably, because I'm not 100% sure that the pain would cease. Common sense says it should. You might ask your ob-gyn Dr next time you go in (Will the pain continue?).
2007-01-15 14:46:58
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answered by Brenda 6
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Yes, the vagina can expand, but if the penis is too big, you're in for a treat. I have known women that have gone to the hospital for that. It will hurt TERRIBLY if you rip. It will only go to a limited amount...Just so you know. Everyone says HUGE is better or cooler, but personally, the smaller the less pain.
2007-01-15 10:07:01
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Lube might help. Make sure it's water based so the condom's not affected. Oil based lube affects them.
The vagina stretches lenghthways too, a bit like an erection inside out. Always get as much foreplay as possible to make sure you're fully aroused.
2007-01-15 07:56:14
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answered by internits 5
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Come on ... a baby comes out of the vagina ... painful yes, but proof that it's sizable.
Time always adjusts to the man you're with. Women who have multiple partners on a regular basis will adjust to fit the dude with the largest equipment. When you stop, you'll conform to the dude you've picked; unless he belittles you and his personality grosses you out --- then it‘s just a bad experience all around.
Persistant pain usually comes from lack of lubercation. This occurs with diet, exercise, and emotional bliss. Too skiny - no lubrications ... Too fat - no lubrications. There is a balance on a woman's weight to help her with sex. Emotions are huge with women. When she's stressed out (good stress and bad stress) she's less likly to be lubed. When she's mega happy, she's super duper lubed. Guys WIN big when they woman is mega happy.
2007-01-15 07:55:07
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