My boyfriend has a large penis and whenever we have sex it hurts. Really bad. Only problem is I tell him to take it easy and he does for like 5 seconds then he goes right back to killing it.
How can I get him to understand that it is painful and he needs to take it easy?
2007-01-15 07:43:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should see your gynecologist, your boyfriend could be too large and you could be too small. Your doctor can give you advice about what to do to make it more enjoyable for you. You said he takes it easy for about 5 seconds and it's really painful for you. Sex should not hurt, you should enjoy it and find it pleasurable otherwise he's the only one receiving pleasure. Women have to start speaking up and demanding pleasure during sex.
Get to your gynecologist as soon as you can, you could have some tearing that should be treated.
2007-01-15 11:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by Alaska Angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already told him. The question is, how much more pain are you willing to put up with? There are men who are very large and can still be gentle. You need to move on from here. Sounds like your man doesn't care about how much he's hurting you. He is only out to get his. I have been in a similar situation and the guy kept bragging like he was huge or something. Funny thing is that I'm just very small. All women are built differently. If sex hurts then it means the man is too rough. Thank you and good luck.
2007-01-15 07:51:49 · answer #2 · answered by cookie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont have this problem... which is good... i guess
anyway, girl on top or keep your knees down as much as possible in missionary will help.
you want to avoid him holding your legs up and doggie
this is refreshing though, a whole thread of women who may actually prefer a man thats not so big.
2007-01-15 08:08:24 · answer #3 · answered by THEMENACE47 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if it is painfull you should just tell him to stop it just tell him hes hurting you if he listens he really likes you but if he just keeps on doing it he does not care all he wants is for him to get pleased.
2007-01-15 08:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by Julio A 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Watch out, you could get seriously hurt. Stuff can get torn, watch out.
2007-01-15 07:49:36 · answer #5 · answered by Mimi149 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is not a good lover if he is hurting you..
Tell him to wise up or find someone else..
2007-01-15 07:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
get on top and controll this situation
2007-01-15 12:02:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
LMAO.....keep your legs closed!!!! Problem solved!
2007-01-15 08:00:54 · answer #8 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he refuses to control himself, then stop having intercourse with him.
2007-01-15 07:50:25 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
u will get used to it,use more lubrication ........
2007-01-15 07:52:02 · answer #10 · answered by reifguy 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋