Is it normal for the man to control everything from finances to where the dishes are to be placed in the dishwasher as well as having to be asked if allowed to rearrange furniture?
2007-01-15 07:32:26 · 7 answers · asked by cinderella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you like to be babysat? Don't do this to yourself. You're a grown woman and you have rights!!! If he want's to control everything, give him the remote. Stand up for youself. Don't let him put you down. You deserve respect and that's not what you're getting from him. If he doesn't change his ways - leave him and find someone who will gladly Help You move furniture around. Good Luck.
2007-01-15 07:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by K9Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. That isn't normal. I have been married 15 years and my wife has complete control of the checking account and pays bills, etc. My paycheck is direct deposit and she know all I make, etc. I do care how the dishes are loaded since most men think like engineers, ie; how to best load to get the most in there for one load, etc. but frankly if my wife does the dishes I don't care how she does it!
2007-01-15 07:38:57 · answer #2 · answered by Mark W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not normal. Most men don't care about dishes or furniture. Money, yes. Marriage should be a partnership.
2007-01-15 07:38:23 · answer #3 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not normal. It sounds like a slight obsessive-compulsive disorder.
2007-01-15 07:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by you do not exist 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that's not normal behavior. He needs to seek help. If he won't, get out now before he drags you down too.
2007-01-15 07:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It'll only get worse for you.. your seeing the warning signs right now.
2007-01-15 07:39:07 · answer #6 · answered by daisy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it is NOT NORMAL! You need to leave him
2007-01-15 08:46:35 · answer #7 · answered by xquis81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋