I have kissed other men behind my b/f back - when I am so drunk I dont know what I am doing and rarely have memory of the event. I now feel so horrible, vile and evil that i cannot live with myself. I can never tell him because it will be over for sure. He is supposed to be my best friend in the world yet I do this to him - he never comes out with me this is why I get so drunk and have the oppertunity if someone makes a pass at me. I promise myself I wont drink and then I do and black out. I know this sounds ridiculous to believe but I want to be with him and i want to be 100% faithful. Can I stay in this relationship or do i deserve the worst?
2007-01-15 07:30:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you truly love him then stop going out and getting drunk.
Sooner or later something awful is going to happen to you in the state of drunkeness and then you will have to explain much more than just a few kisses. Get yourself some help and hang onto the one guy who loves you and doesn't want to take advantage of you while your drunk.
If you can't do this then yes you deserve exactly what happens to you.
2007-01-15 07:40:23 · answer #1 · answered by MKM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pain of circumcision is a brief moment in life. The main impact is living with or without a foreskin. There are advantages both ways. What's done is done. The main disadvantage, to be honest, will not be with a partner, but rather when he's uh ... alone. Just keep lots of lube around the house once he's a teenager.
2016-05-24 07:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God gave us six senses and you need to settle down you are okay! Take a deep breath and look @ it like this when you drink you become a whole different person that you really don't care for and the things you do. I understand that your b\f doesn't go out you know that before you got this far with him so find things that you can Enjoy together and PLEASE NO MORE DRINKING put the past be hind you and leave it there! LOVE YOUR MAN if you got that type of energy then give a DANCE or TO (SMILE) YA KNOW Lap DANCE!
2007-01-15 07:53:13 · answer #3 · answered by deezbrats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop drinking and clubbing. Go out with your bf instead of out to bars if you know what will happen when you drink. People rarely get so drunk they don't know what they are doing. That is just a convenient excuse. Maybe you're not ready for a committed relationship.
2007-01-15 07:35:32 · answer #4 · answered by Lotus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for you the same thing well not exactly but me and this guy been dating for a month and we got along so great then one weekend I had too much too drink and try to kiss one of his friends and he broke it off with me. I finally talk to him today after 10 days of not hearing from him and it is also that I need too much attention that he feels that he cant give me that much. I really do like this guy alot and want to work things out with him. He is still confused right now and it just hurts me inside so much because of this. I dont know what to do either.
2007-01-15 07:37:48 · answer #5 · answered by chanlen2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For someone who says she doesnt remember the events, youre doing pretty well remembering what happens. It sounds like you have an alcohol addiction and youre only using him as an excuse to get drunk. All youre managing to do is to destroy yourself and your relationship so you better get help before you lose all, then prioritize everything in your life. Good luck
2007-01-15 07:37:55 · answer #6 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have three choices: get out of the relaionship, fess up and tell the truth, or stop going out without him where there will be alcohol avaliable. Anything else is unfair to your boyfriend.
2007-01-15 07:37:20 · answer #7 · answered by Sean J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe if you can't control your self and or actions, maybe you should'nt be drinking, seems to me you don't know where your limit is, and you can't handle it. so your best bet is to stop now, befor something serrious happens, dui, kill some body and or your self, drunk driving, or somebody takes advantage of you and the situatuion, and you could end up getting hurt or killed.
2007-01-15 07:45:57 · answer #8 · answered by D lux 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need professional help.
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2007-01-15 07:45:32 · answer #9 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve the worst. It's girls like you that make every other girl out there look like or get called a sl*t.
2007-01-15 07:35:33 · answer #10 · answered by U Luv It 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋