As long as you knew he didn't love them?
2007-01-15 07:28:04 · 13 answers · asked by Tracy C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no i would never be able to be with him intimate again, if they had betrayed me. if he slept with them, he may not yet love them, but he sure don't love u anymore, your in denial about this. he don't love u either if he could do this to u. every time i saw him i would see an image in my mind of him and the other woman. just couldn't do it, would make me sick.
2007-01-15 10:32:11 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not he loved the other female isn't the issue. The whole issue is that he brought someone else into our intimate place. He was naked with another woman, he touched and had sexual feelings toward someone else other than me. That alone would make me not want to be his wife anymore. I don't care how sexy he was, I wouldn't want him if he cheated on me.
2007-01-15 20:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was a one time thing, I could deal with that. But, since you said "cheats", I'm guessing it's not a one time thing. So, no. I wouldn't ever feel comfortable with my husband touching me. In the back of my mind, I would always be thinking if "is he imagining that he's with 'her' " or I wonder if " 'she' is better than me in bed".
2007-01-15 15:38:35 · answer #3 · answered by Andiebray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my situation is different. if it had not been for the coke-craze that my husband went through for 3 months this summer, he would of never of looked at his whore twice. never would of cheated on me, had he been sober and not kicked out of the house.
that said, i can still be turned on by him, because i always was and i love him like no other.
i have sex with him because that is a big part of our relationship, always was.
2007-01-15 16:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by siriusblackpearl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't want to be with him anymore. I would think about him being with the other woman. I would never be able to trust him again. In fact it has happened to me. I divorced my first husband over the same thing.
2007-01-15 15:32:43 · answer #5 · answered by DL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation. I think it's normal to still have feelings for your husband - they don't just disappear, even after he does something like that. But what you choose to do about the feelings depends on your relationship, and if you want to forgive him or not.
2007-01-15 15:33:42 · answer #6 · answered by Julie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no i can never forgive my husband for cheating he can have his tramp's im moving on with my life hell with him you might think diffrent i think if a husband cheats he don't give a dam about his wife and don't respect her and why they marry if thier going to cheat it don't make sence when a husband don't care about his marrige vows
2007-01-19 15:09:44 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If it was my gf that done it. Its her heart I want to have not her poo nanny. I could live with her occasional indescretions as long as it was me she loved.
2007-01-15 15:32:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. My sex drive for him would go away completely.
2007-01-15 15:35:41 · answer #9 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not.
2007-01-15 15:39:44 · answer #10 · answered by mccmb02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋