My best friend and I used to play fight a lot.
We'd mess around tickling each other or whacking eachother with pillows.
But a month ago, she started a big play fight where she kept smacking my ***!
It was quite fun, although I had a sore *** for a bit!
Yesterday she told me that she couldn't stop thinking about it and she wanted to give me a proper spanking!
I couldn't believe it. I didn't know what to say so I told her I would think about it.
I really value her friendship and I'm worried that if I refuse then our relationship will suffer.
Already we cannot go back to the innocent fun we used to have.
Should I let her spank me or refuse?
2007-01-15 07:18:04 · 31 answers · asked by Anna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You're afraid to not let her do it because it could affect the relationship, but letting her do it if you're not comfortable could also affect the relationship. Sit down and talk to her about your feelings and hers. Likely, if she's developing an interest in you that's beyond "just friends," then you might not ever be able to go back to that playful innocence. By the same token, don't discount the possibility that you might enjoy it as well, since you did say that it was fun, despite the pain that you felt in the aftermath.
If you find out that it's not a sexual interest, then it might be spanking play that she enjoys. If that's the case, you could add a lot more innocent play to getting a spanking by what's referred to in the spanko realm as "bratting." Bratting is minor misbehaviors intended for the purpose of instigating the person that spanks you to do so. For instance, if you wanted to playfully "earn" a spanking, you could stick your tongue out at her, make fun of her in a playful way (though, "you hit like a girl" probably won't work in your case), or fall back on "brat toys" like rubber bands, nerf toys and squirt guns. This might bring back the playfulness that you enjoy. As a frequent attendee at spanking parties, I see several young ladies going over other women's laps for playful spankings, and there's no sexual innuendo involved. Good luck.
2007-01-15 10:46:10 · answer #1 · answered by baka_otaku30 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Spank Spank Spank
2007-01-15 15:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by EWE ANCHOR 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My friend is a bit like yours although uh not as full on.
she calls my bum, 'peachy bum' and pokes it from time to time and she says she loves my bum lol but I know she's only like being silly and I don't really care because we're really good mates, plus I know she isn't a weird, pyscho lesbian bum obsesser as she has a boyfriend and she's just off her head in general.
So you know...
but as for spanking - well that's just a little weird and if you don't feel comforatable with it, even if it's a joke, then just don't let her.
2007-01-15 15:28:34 · answer #3 · answered by don't stop the music ♪ 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like you're not comfortable with the idea... if you were, you wouldn't be asking the question... I suggest you hold back, and talk to her... Point out that you are worried about your friendship being destroyed by this... xx
2007-01-15 15:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by lou lou 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you are interested in that and want to give it a try then why not and who knows maybe if you have thought about that kind of "fun" then maybe it will be easier to do it with a friend
if thats not your thing just tell her and tell her that you dont want to lose her friendship but that you dont swing that way
good luck either way
2007-01-15 15:33:47 · answer #5 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ew don't listen to these preverted guys. It doesn't really sound like she wants to act like "just friends" she probably wants more. She could be bi or just a slutt because they don't care what you are they just want one thing. Do what you feel like is right if you think it feels wrong, don't let her do it and tell her it makes you feel uncomfortable.
2007-01-15 15:37:11 · answer #6 · answered by stacie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you even need to ask this question,then the chances are that your probably not that into it?Do you want her to smack yer ****?Go with whatever makes you comfortable,but ,i think its safe to say your friendship may never be the same again!
2007-01-15 16:13:37 · answer #7 · answered by pinkydinkydoo 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It all depends on whether or not you're into it as well. If you're both consenting, and of age, then I don't see why not. Just keep in mind that what you are talking about is highly sexual in nature.
2007-01-15 15:43:26 · answer #8 · answered by mike w 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you might enjoy it - and she certainly will - so why not give it a try? OK, you can't go back to the 'innocent fun' - but the 'naughty fun' might be even better....
2007-01-16 05:06:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
My fantasies are of spanking too!! Just talk to her about ur feelings!
2007-01-15 15:52:13 · answer #10 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋