i like this guy and i always have to call him , he never calls me and i am very very confused?! i like him and all but it seems to me that he doesnt want to call me ... how do i play hard to get?!
2007-01-15 07:08:17 · 13 answers · asked by hcoxchick15 2 in Education & Reference ➔ Words & Wordplay
Why would you want to play hard to get? I mean first of all you're trying WAY too hard. Call him like once a week and it might not be that he doesn't like you he may just not be a phone guy. Does he like someone else? Is he always busy? Just make sure he knows you're there but don't call him ten times a day. Chill. Just be yourself and do things you know he'll notice. Does he like a football team that you like? Talk to him about them. Just find some common ground without being a total lapdog.
Lots of luck!!!
2007-01-15 07:15:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moniiikaa.. I've got your questions sent straight to my email box for some reason.. I'm surprised that after all the good advice you've got, you still ask unnecessary questions like this current one.. Tell you what, think of it as this way.. if this 'hot guy from the gym' is attracted to you, then you're obviously doing something right.. don't go begging for him, you sound desperate otherwise. Out of mind out of sight is the best way, and, when you see him next, give him an earful about not answering his phone and playing silly childish games with you - without reason!!. out of mind, out of sight.. dont fret, and all will come good in the hood :). Afterall, plenty of fish in the sea..
2016-05-24 07:22:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, one way to play hard to get is to make sure he texts and calls you much more than you text and call him. Let him initiate most contact. If you get a phone call or a text, you don't have to answer a.s.a.p. - give it a little bit of time. Make it appear that you're busy and have lots going on. Best of all is to truly BE busy and have lots going on. Then you will not feel as desperate to be in constant contact with him, it'll give you more self-confidence, and self-confidence is attractive.
2007-01-15 07:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't the fact that you have to call him all the time tell you something? He's not interested. Playing hard to get may be a relief to him. Find someone who is interested in you.
2007-01-15 07:12:22 · answer #4 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a different interest. Don't continue calling him as he is obviously not interested enough. When you stop calling him he may call you or he may not, but it is really annoying to have someone keep calling you when you are not interested. Of coarse, he should have the decency to just tell you too that he isn't interested.
2007-01-15 07:16:40 · answer #5 · answered by Yomi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing 'hard to get' does not work unless he actually does want to get you. Ringing him up all the time is a real turn off.
2007-01-15 10:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me if he was interested he'd be the one calling, I know times have changed, but minds haven't. If he really wanted to contact you you wouldn't have had to ask this question, sorry!
2007-01-15 07:13:23 · answer #7 · answered by darlene g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the guy you like knows how to play it.
2007-01-15 07:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Goodkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dun know just dont talk to him or call him and he will miss u calling him he is the one playing hard to get =D
2007-01-15 07:11:35 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Rawr♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't chase him - guys don't want to be chased, they want to chase girls. By making yourself "so" available, you present no challenge to the male ego. Back off and if he comes around to your way of thinking that is considered a Bonus. If he doesn't you won't embarrass yourself by throwing yourself at someone who isn't worthy of you.
2007-01-15 07:13:19 · answer #10 · answered by D N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋