any kids that are my blood and will give all of the money he inherits from me to the kid he adopted with his partner I don't think he should get any of my money.
2007-01-15 07:03:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well lets look at your other questions....
you do not like your daughters bf
you do not like Martin Luther King day
and you are gay yourself but chose to have kids
2007-01-15 07:12:38 · answer #1 · answered by Tegarst 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is, for those reasons.
Is your son worth only if he can have a child? Technically he never had a drop of your blood or your wife's in him, the fetus gets the resources from his mother and then makes his own unique blood, that's why sometimes the mother's immune system kills them.
I know that as a gay son myself it will make me feel grand if my mother accepted me completely and if you want to 'disown him' don't ever tell him that would hurt so much. I'm glad he is happy you don't have a problem, don't bring him down with that. Make sure he gets a job he can live off from later on though at least.
Money ought to be the least of the matter in family, but i'm sure that's 100 times better than you not accepting him, so kuddos for that.
2007-01-15 10:43:15 · answer #2 · answered by Alim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you can't tell alot from this short of a sentence what kind of person you are . But it sounds to me like you've got everything messed up. What if this was your daughter who unable to bare children? Would you feel the same way? I doubt it!!!!
Get with the program. Does your son and his partner care for this child? Do they have this child as a top priority in their lives?
I bet you they are doing a great job of things . You have to get out of the 50's & appreciate what you have.
If you don't do this I can guarentee not only will they not care about the $$$ they won't care about you either.
2007-01-15 07:46:35 · answer #3 · answered by Chris B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW. So you are willing to cut your own flesh-n-blood off from you completley based off of his sexual nature. Apparently you do have a problem with him being gay. With him being gay you have no one to pass on your name and blood and you feel somewhat betrayed in that fact.
He is your son and you shouldn't subject him to your hate and stinginess. From reading your question it seems you already made up your mind on the situation. Shame on you. While I doubt you would actually disown your son over something like this I do believe you would deny him in your will. You should think hard about that before you make it final.
2007-01-15 07:20:23 · answer #4 · answered by pheirmeizer001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember if you disown him and the eventual time comes for you to go into a nursing home who it is that will be deciding where you go and who will take care of you(if anyone does at all). People that disown their children for petty reasons like you suggest are the same ones that are found in old apartments after having been dead for 6 months because no one cared enough to check on them.
2007-01-15 07:12:42 · answer #5 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I am not going to tell you what to do but I do think you need to REALLY think this through before you do anything like writing a will or saying anything to your son about how you feel and what you are considering. In my mind adopted children are just as important as ones who are physcially born into a family. There are children of one's body and children of one's spirit. To think of one group as being less than the other is, in my opinion, wrong. To base your decision on your son being gay or his choice of a partner is just you trying to punish him for something that he can not control and for him choosing someone you don't approve of after you have died. While the money you have is yours and you have every right to do with it as you please, using it to punish someone through his children from the grave is, in my opinion, just mean. I have grown children of my own and they have made choices that has made me so angry that I thought I would never forgive or forget but I have. It takes alot of soul searching and love to get beyond some of it. Good luck in your search.
2007-01-15 07:32:00 · answer #6 · answered by Praire Crone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing MORE wrong than disowning your own son because of something as stupid as his sexual orientation. First of all, he has no choice if he wanted to be gay or straight, and second, love is love is love and gender has nothing to do with it. If you disown him you truly are the biggest idiot in the world.
2007-01-15 08:02:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u disown someone, ur not just cutting someone off financially, but more importantly and more seriously, ur cutting them off emotionally. Do u really want to destroy the relationship with ur son over something as stupid and meaningless in the grand scheme of things) as an inheritance?
2007-01-15 07:11:27 · answer #8 · answered by Venus Mantrap 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
If your son was adopted and you raised and loved him as your own his entire life would you leave him an inheritance. If you would any children he raises will grow to love you as their grandparent if you let them. What's the difference
2007-01-15 07:17:02 · answer #9 · answered by Ronnie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you should have a problem with his lifestyle, but I don't think you should disown him.
Instead, make a will. Divide your stuff up however you want, give it to a friend or something.
2007-01-15 07:15:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If not have related grandchildren is the problem then you really need to know what sperm donating is. There are some straight couples who choice not to have kids so if your child was straight that could be a possibility.
2016-05-19 09:05:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋