she lives in another country. well she came to visit within 2 hours of where i am, but she didnt leave me her number again, so i had no way of calling her, and before she left she made it clear that she was interested in meeting me, even though me and the ex are trying to work it out. anyway i know she is back now and i have sent her emails explaining i had no way to contact her, why hasnt she emailed me back?
2007-01-15 06:43:15 · 19 answers · asked by Brian 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she's messing with you.
2007-01-15 06:45:40 · answer #1 · answered by danhh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really wanted to meet up with you, she would have contacted you somehow. Or she would have made arrangements to meet you long b4 she ever left her country. To me it sounds like it really wasn't that important to her that she meet with you.
Recently I found out that a blogging friend was coming to my City for a company party (she lives an hr and a half from me, I'll call her 'Mary'). I found out only that morning that Mary was coming here, I rushed around sending messages every possible way I could thru messenger, our comments section of blog, mailbox thru blog, email, ect and thankfully she did check her messages b4 she left. I ask her what her schedule would be like and if she could squeeze me in for a visit. We met at a restaurant where they had already intended to eat at and it was an awesome visit! Since then, I've even made a road trip to visit her and will meet with her again this w/e. Also, another blogging friend (I'll call Sandy) found out I was going to meet this person and she made arrangements with me for me to pick her up in the next town over (about 30 min away) and we went together to visit Mary an hr and a half away. I paid for the gas on the way down there and she picked up the gas tab on the way back.
So, if your friend really wanted to meet you, she would have figured out a way.
I don't know why she hasn't emailed you back. You don't state how long it's been since you sent the emails to her. Maybe she's just been busy since returning to her country? Could be a lot of reasons. Maybe she's feeling guilty about not meeting up with you and she's avoiding the subject by not emailing you back? Could be a hundred reasons why she hasn't emailed you back. I would just keep trying, reassure her that your not mad or upset with her, keep your fingers crossed and hope for the best.
2007-01-15 15:01:15 · answer #2 · answered by suzyq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is a big difference between saying you want to meet someone and actually doing it, she might not be replying for loads of reasons. If you believe that she wants to meet you then it might just be because she is scared or feels awkward about the situation. Alternatively she might be trying to get in touch with you and may be in the same position as you! As you've been talking for over a year, im guessing you know her pretty well, don't give up hope!
Louise
2007-01-15 14:51:17 · answer #3 · answered by XLouiseX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Online relationships are hard, I kinda know from experience. You might be better off without them. She probably doesn't want to meet you. She might be afraid to meet you in fear that your relationship would change in a negative way. I don't know why she hasn't mailed you back, maybe she's just busy. I used to be in an online relationship, and the stress whenever he didn't reply was annoying, because you never know if they're ignoring you or just have computer problems. My advice is to not worry about her so much.
2007-01-15 14:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something seems really fishy about this.If she was really wanting to see you she would have made sure she contacted you upon her arrival.I hate to tell you but whenever she does decides to return your email find out her lies and then let her know that you are very disappointed in her actions.
2007-01-15 14:49:15 · answer #5 · answered by lexydangle08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be scared that your the online freak that everyone scared of. Just send her an e mail explaining what truly is going on. I think she's scared of meeting you what if you're not what she expects
2007-01-15 14:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by Tori B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is just as confused as you are about the situation. Give it some time and if she never says anything back then I guess she isnt very cool.
2007-01-15 14:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by Derek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she hasnt checked her email lately...whe she does respond ask he to meet you somewhere like at the mall or movies...dont keep sending her emails though because she will get annoyed if you send her to many...just wait for her to respond
2007-01-15 14:47:15 · answer #8 · answered by Falling in Love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she got cold feet. I would forget about it if you are intending to get back together with your ex.
2007-01-15 14:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may not be for real.If you are trying to work it out with your ex it will never work as long as you are persuing this other relationship.
2007-01-15 14:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by sparky75us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that your "friend" is just making fun of you. next time before she leaves her country just tell her to give you where to contact her and that will be!
2007-01-15 14:49:43 · answer #11 · answered by miss mary quite contrary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋