but when it comes to most females we like to drag things out, disconnect friendships, and so forth?
2007-01-15 06:43:06 · 15 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ha! That's why I love being a man. We can beat each other silly till our faces blead and then let bye gones be bye gones!
I think it's because woman connect memories with emotions. So when girls feel a certain emotion, they quickly remember specific instances with that emotion.
Guys don't want to even remember those specific beat downs! We're always moving on to the next scenario to conquer.
2007-01-15 06:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Women: hold onto their emotions, little things, big things, etc. moreso then men. They want to utterly defeat the other person using everything that they've done wrong.
Men: Tend to just think of the issue at hand most of the time. Usually if the issue is worked out in a way we understand or feel good about, then we are fine. Heck, some guys just like to fight things out to release pent up emotions. Once we are physically exhausted all that is left is being able to think. Then we decide what is good/bad, needs to be overlooked or forgotten, etc.
2007-01-15 14:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by rezruf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys know how hard is it to loose a good friend. They fight & throw out all the anger & become friends again, which makes the relation even stronger.
Girls on other hands, envy each other & due to the ego problems, they just stop talking each other. The lava of anger boils within which comes out to insult the other girl anytime.
2007-01-15 14:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by hmmm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because girls hold the Olympic medal for the Longest Grudge. We never let things go and we use past experiences to hold against people if they screw up in the future. It's sad but it's true. For guys...I guess it's over and done with. Basically, it's just they're boiling mad, they throw a couple of punches, when they're done, they have nothing left to be mad about!
2007-01-15 14:53:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is engrained into our beings. It is not like we start that in our teens or 20s it starts in preschool. I have boys who get mad, fight, punch each other in the gut and then say "hey lets go play spiderman" then there are the girls "your not my friend" Your not going to my party, I hate you don't play with her" and it last days even weeks it is so sad to see. I would almost rather them fist fight like the boys and get it over with in a matter of 2 mins.
2007-01-15 14:48:33 · answer #5 · answered by 'lil peanut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men realize power in groups from a young age. And that getting along is needed. Sports, military service and much more.
2007-01-15 14:50:03 · answer #6 · answered by thefinalresult 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once we let off the steam and unburden ourselves of the problem we just see no reason to keep it going. Doing so and hanging onto it just generally bothers the person hanging onto it more than anyone else so we just refrain ourselves from doing that.
2007-01-15 14:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because us girls are more emotional and tend to base relationships on more realistic standards... standards that last a lifetime.
Whereas guys? They just want someone to watch the football game with.
2007-01-15 14:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normally due to looking at and wanting our friends woman! So, it makes that relationship very valuable to keep, regardless of the fat lips and blackeyes, they'll go away, but not the urges!
2007-01-15 14:48:12 · answer #9 · answered by onAhhroll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when guys argue they fight and then the anger is out and theres no more reason to fight because if your are willing to fight for what you think is right then another guy will respect that and then they are friends again!
2007-01-15 14:50:19 · answer #10 · answered by Reaper G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋