what are some good things to feed my 9 month old?

Question

my daughter is 9 months old and doesn't eat a lot of solids...i am trying to give her 3 meals a day of the 2nd foods, but she doesn't seem to like them. lately she has only been eating solids once or twice a day, and i give her some little finger foods from the store that don't fill her up. so what are some suggestions of food that i can give her that won't make her choke and that is easy to prepare?

Answer 1

When my daughter was little (she is now 3) I gave her foods that were soft but still solid. Bananas, cooked carrots, cooked peas, cooked green beans and a lot of other things. My menu theory was simple. I gave her a variety of foods that while they were still in a solid state, she was able to eat them with out too much pain (from all the teething). I also followed the suggestion of her doctor which was to eat by color. I tried to give her foods that offered her an appealing colorful plate but that were also full of a variety of vitamins. Most of what I fed her was easy to prepare and often part of what my husband and I were eating. This became really important because when she was hesitant to eat something new, she would see us eating it and give it a try. Good luck, if you are ever in doubt I wouldn't hesitate to call the doctor or the nurse on call to answer any questions. As a first time mom I had them on speed dial!

Answer 2

Just give it time. When starting on solids, you need to pick one food and stick with it for a few days. This will allow her to get used to the food, and also give her body time to adjust.

Start with yellow/orange veggie baby food. Squash, carrots, etc. Pick one and stick with it for a couple days. Give it to her only at lunch or dinner (or both if you think she wouldn't mind). Give her the same flavor for a few days and then try something new.

Maybe thin it out with breastmilk/formula and add a little less breastmilk/formula each day to get her used to solids.

It just takes practice and patience..good luck :-)

Answer 3

the gerber graduates is a good idea, i did this with my son, he hated baby food and i had to try other options. he was on all table food at 9 months because he wouldn't eat anything but his formula. mashed potatoes, fruits and veggies cut up small and make sure that they are soft enough for her. you can try almost anything that will be soft enough for her to gum up and you can cut small enough that she won't choke. gerber also makes little entrees and they are little meals for babys and toddlers, they make alot of different varieties and these work well too.

Answer 4

she might be teething; i used the gerber graduates finger foods once my daughter became 9 months old. just be sure to watch her closely with them.

Answer 5

you can try and make her own food. For example.boil some veggies and macaroni , chicken breast and so on and then smash them together (but no seasoning)...whatever they do in the jars u can do it and its better and healthier ......My dd preferred home food over the jars..i don't blame her ,have u tasted those nasty things ewww lol...

Answer 6

mushy foods and baby food. this is the time there teeth hurt.

Answer 7

soup

Answer 8

http://www.borstvoeding.com/voedselintroductie/vast_voedsel/rapley_guidelines.html
Breastfeeding as the basis for self-feeding
Exclusive breastfeeding is recommended for the first six months of life. Breastfeeding is the ideal preparation for self-feeding with solid foods. Breastfeeding babies feed at their own pace – indeed, it is impossible to force them to do anything else! They also balance their own intake of food and fluid by choosing how long each feed should last. Breastfeeding is essentially self-feeding, with the baby in control of the process. And, because breastmilk changes in flavour according to the mother’s diet, breastfeeding prepares the baby for other tastes.

It is not clear whether a baby-led approach to the introduction of solids is appropriate for babies who are bottle fed; more research is needed to establish this, since bottle-feeding seems to be more mother-led. It is difficult to make predictions about how bottle-fed babies will manage solids, so we need to be careful. However, as long as care is taken to ensure an adequate fluid intake (see below), there would seem to be nothing inherently wrong in adopting this approach. It is recommended that parents of babies who are being bottle (formula) fed discuss the matter fully with their health advisers if they wish to use this method.

Understanding the baby’s motivation
This approach to introducing solids offers a baby the opportunity to discover what other foods have to offer as part of finding out about the world around him. It utilises his desire to explore and experiment, and to mimic the activities of others. Allowing the baby to set the pace of each meal, and maintaining an emphasis on play and exploration rather than on eating, enables the transition to solid foods to take place as naturally as possible. This is because it would appear that what motivates babies to make this transition is curiosity, not hunger.

There is no reason for mealtimes to coincide with the baby’s milk feeds. Indeed, thinking of (milk) feeding and the introduction to solid foods as two separate activities will allow a more relaxed approach and make the experience more enjoyable for both parents and child.

Won’t he choke?
Many parents worry about babies choking. However, there is good reason to believe that babies are at less risk of choking if they are in control of what goes into their mouth than if they are spoon fed. This is because babies are not capable of intentionally moving food to the back of their throats until after they have learnt to chew. And they do not develop the ability to chew until after they have developed the ability to reach out and grab things. Thus, a very young baby cannot easily put himself at risk because he cannot get the food into his mouth in the first place. On the other hand, the action used to suck food off a spoon tends to take the food straight to the back of the mouth, causing gagging. This means that spoon feeding has its own potential to lead to choking – and makes the giving of lumpy foods with a spoon especially dangerous.

It appears that a baby’s general development keeps pace with the development of his ability to manage food in his mouth, and to digest it. A baby who is struggling to get food into his mouth is probably not quite ready to eat it. It is important to resist the temptation to ‘help’ the baby in these circumstances since his own developmental abilities are what ensure that the transition to solid feeding takes place at the right pace for him. This process is also what keeps him safe from choking on small pieces of food, since, if he is not yet able to pick up small objects using his finger and thumb, he will not be able to get, for example, a pea or a raisin into his mouth. Once he is able to do this, he will have developed the necessary oral skills to deal with it. Putting foods into a baby’s mouth for him overrides this natural protection and increases the risk of choking.

Tipping a baby backwards or lying him down to feed him solid foods is dangerous. A baby who is handling food should always be supported in an upright position. In this way, food which he is not yet able to swallow, or does not wish to swallow, will fall forward out of his mouth, not backwards into his throat.

Adopting a baby-led approach doesn’t mean abandoning all the common sense rules of safety. While it is very unlikely that a young baby would succeed in picking up a peanut, for example, accidents can and will happen on rare occasions – however the baby is fed. Rules of safety which apply in other play situations should therefore be adhered to when eating is in progress.

Won't he start eating solids too early?
The babies who participated in the research were allowed to begin at four months. But they were not able to feed themselves before 6 months. Some of the younger babies picked food up and took it to their mouths; some even chewed it, but none swallowed it. Their own development decided for them when the time was right. Part of the reason for this study was to show (based on a theory of self-feeding) that babies are not ready for solid foods before 6 months. It would seem that we have spent all these years working out that 6 months is the right age when and babies have known it all along!

It seems reasonable to predict that, if parents choose to provide babies with the opportunity to pick up and eat solid foods from birth, they will still not achieve it until around 6 months. The principle is the same as putting a newborn baby on the floor to play: he is being provided with the opportunity to walk but will not do so until about 1 year – because his own development stops him. But: everything depends on the baby being in control. Food must not be put into his mouth for him. Since it is very tempting to do this, it is probably safer to recommend that babies should not be given the opportunity to eat solid foods before six months.



Bauke, born on the 8th of September 2004
now at just six months he is happily busy with a peer
Ensuring good nutrition
Babies who are allowed to feed themselves tend to accept a wide range of foods. This is probably because they have more than just the flavour of the food to focus on – they are experiencing texture, colour, size and shape as well. In addition, giving babies foods separately, or in a way which enables them to separate them for themselves, enables them to learn about a range of different flavours and textures. And allowing them to leave anything they appear not to like will encourage them to be prepared to try new things.

The opposite appears to be true for a baby who is spoon fed, especially if foods are presented as purees containing more than one flavour. In this situation the baby has no way of isolating any flavour he doesn’t like and will tend to reject the whole meal. Since his parents can only guess which food is causing the problem, they risk more food rejection until they track it down. In the meantime, the baby learns not to trust food and the range of foods he will accept can become severely limited. This can lead to his overall nutrition being compromised. Offering foods separately, but together on the same plate, allows the baby to make his own decisions about mixing flavours.

General principles of good nutrition for children apply equally to young babies who are managing their own introduction to solid foods. Thus, ‘fast foods’ and foods with added sugar and salt should be avoided. However, once a baby is over six months old there is no need, unless there is a family history of allergy or a known or suspected digestive disorder, to otherwise restrict the foods that the baby can be offered. Fruit and vegetables are ideal, with harder foods cooked lightly so that they are soft enough to be chewed. At first, meat is best offered as a large piece, to be explored and sucked; once the baby can manage to pick up and release fistfuls of food, minced meat works well. Note: Babies do not need teeth to bite and chew – gums do very well!

There is no need to cut food into mouth-sized pieces. Indeed, this will make it difficult for a young baby to handle. A good guide to the size and shape needed is the size of the baby’s fist, with one important extra factor to bear in mind: Young babies cannot open their fist on purpose to release things. This means that they do best with food that is chip-shaped or has a built-in ‘handle’ (like the stalk of a piece of broccoli). They can then chew the bit that is sticking out of their fist and drop the rest later – usually while reaching for the next interesting-looking piece. As their skills improve, so less food will be dropped.

What about drinks?
The fat content of breastmilk increases during a feed. A breastfed baby recognises this change and uses it to control his fluid intake. If he wants a drink, he will tend to feed for a short time, perhaps from both breasts, whereas if he is hungry he will feed for longer. This is why breastfed babies who are allowed to feed whenever they want for as long as they want do not need any other drinks, even in hot weather.

This principle can work throughout the period of changeover to family meals if the baby continues to be allowed to breastfeed ‘on demand’. A cup of water can be offered with meals as part of the opportunity for exploration but there is no need to be concerned if he doesn’t want to drink any.

Continuing to feed ‘on demand’ will have the added advantage of allowing the baby to decide how and when to cut down his breastmilk intake. As he eats more at shared mealtimes, so he will ‘forget’ to ask for some of his breastfeeds, or will feed for less long at a time. There is no need for his mother to make these decisions.

Formula milk has the same consistency throughout the feed. If the formula-fed baby were to be given milk as his only fluid he would be at risk either of not getting enough fluid, or of consuming too many calories, or both. Parents who are implementing this method of introducing solids with a bottle-fed baby should therefore offer their baby water at regular intervals once he is seen to be eating small quantities of food. They are advised to consult their health care advisers on how this should be managed.

DO's and DON’Ts for baby-led introducing of solids
DO offer your baby the chance to participate whenever anyone else in the family is eating. You can begin to do this towards the end of the sixth month. Around this time most babies start showing an interest in watching you.
DO ensure that your baby is supported in an upright position while he is experimenting with food. In the early days you can sit him on your lap, facing the table. Once he is beginning to show skill at picking food up he will almost certainly be mature enough to sit, with minimal support, in a high chair.
DO start by offering foods that are baby-fist-sized, preferably chip-shaped. As far as possible, and provided they are suitable, offer him the same foods that you are eating, so that he feels part of what is going on.
DO offer a variety of foods. There is no need to limit your baby’s experience with food any more than you do with toys.
DON’T hurry your baby. Allow him to direct the pace of what he is doing. In particular, don’t be tempted to ‘help’ him by putting things in his mouth for him.
DON’T expect your baby to eat any food on the first few occasions. Once he has discovered that these new toys taste nice, he will begin to chew and, later, swallow.
DON’T expect a young baby to eat all of each piece of food – remember that he won’t yet have developed the ability to get at food which is inside his fist.
DO try rejected foods again later – babies often change their minds and later accept foods they originally turned down.
DON’T leave your baby on his own with food.
DON’T offer foods which present an obvious danger, such as peanuts.
DON’T offer ‘fast’ foods, ready meals or foods that have added salt or sugar.
DO offer water from a cup but don’t worry if your baby shows no interest in it. A breastfed baby is likely to continue for some time to get all the drinks he needs from the breast.
DO be prepared for the mess! A clean plastic sheet on the floor under the high chair will protect your carpet and make clearing up easier. It will also enable you to give back foods that have been dropped, so that less is wasted. (You will be pleasantly surprised at how quickly your baby learns to eat with very little mess!)
DO continue to allow your baby to breastfeed whenever he wants, for as long as he wants. Expect his feeding pattern to change as he starts to eat more of the other foods.
If you are bottle feeding, or have a family history of food intolerance, allergy or digestive problems, DO discuss this method of introducing solids with your health advisers before embarking on it.
Finally, DO enjoy watching your baby learn about food – and develop his skills with his hands and mouth in the process!