O.k. here is the deal. My friend's boyfriend and I do not get along at all. In 1st period we sit together and he is always talking **** to me. Then while my friend and him are alone, I notice that he tells her something and then he faces me. After my friend comes back to us, infront of everyone she starts telling me that he told her I called her a ***** and slut and all those types of things. I tell her he's lieing and that he's the one talking **** to me instead of me about her. And I tell her why would I talk **** behind her back when we are like the closest friends but she believes him instead. What should I do? HELP?!?!?!?
2007-01-15 06:39:44 · 19 answers · asked by cheetah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Record one of the conversations you and your friend's boyfriend have together. So once you 2 start fighting and that happens again, you'll have proof of what was said.
2007-01-15 06:44:28 · answer #1 · answered by tanzliebe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend should know by now that friends almost always outlive boyfriends. How long do you think her relationship with this guy is going to last? And how long have you two been friends? It isn't fair that your friend is challenging your word with his and jeopardizing the trust that lies between the both of you - tell her so! It probably hurts that she believes a guy who can just come and go as he pleases over someone who will probably be there when he does. Not only does she not realize this, but she's probably ruining the chances of this ever happening if she continues to disregard you like that!
2007-01-15 06:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly friends are so much more important than any guy, you need to let your friend know that. Secondly if you are close then the best thing to do is to sit down with her and talk about the situation. Tell her how you feel and make her realise you'd never lie. I hope you can sort things out
Louise
2007-01-15 06:45:04 · answer #3 · answered by XLouiseX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her who she is going to believe, her best friend who wants nothing but the best for her and for her to be happy, or this guy that talks s*** about her behind her back and then pretends he is the good guy.
She will probably choose him for a little while until she finally realizes what a loser he is. Then she will come back to you begging you to forgive her.
Guys come and go but true friends are forever. If she lets this guy come between you...she wasn't your true friend to start with.
2007-01-15 06:45:47 · answer #4 · answered by DONNA M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. If she was really your friend she should at least trust you not to say those things. But this sounds like its gonna clear up in a few days or weeks...
2007-01-15 06:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty sad if she is one of your closest friends. Your feelings are one sided otherwise she would take the time to considure your words.
Try to find better friends. I didnt find my closest friends till Junoir year of highschool.
2007-01-15 07:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by rezruf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to tell him to stop acting like a ********* and secondly you need some new friends girl, seriously these kind of people are just going to bring you down you sound like a nice person so and i am sure that you wont have any problem making new friends :)
2007-01-15 06:47:58 · answer #7 · answered by notyochic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her boyfriends got her wrapped around his finger. Obviously he ahs a grudge agianst you. Don't talk to them and maybe he will get a new person to pick on. Suddenly all her friends will be disappering and she will see why. Because of her boyfriend. He wants her all to himself.
2007-01-15 06:44:38 · answer #8 · answered by shiningstars 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doesn't "believe you" and "chooses him".... the ditch her. have some self respect and dignity and stop wasting your time.
chances are really good that you guys will not stay friends past highschool anyway, so what do you have to lose besides for time and energy on someone who clearly does not respect your friendship.
2007-01-15 06:45:27 · answer #9 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up. Gossip and drama ar dead. Thank goodness we don't have more important issues in this world to deal with.
2007-01-15 06:44:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋