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I have two friends, Lisa and Mark, & were 15. Ive known them for awhile & the 3 of us are really close. Recently, Lisa & Mark have started 'like-liking' eachother. That doesn't bother me at all because i have been playing cupid between them when they were both too shy to talk to one another. their attitudes & friendship towards me have not changed at all, and i appreciate that. the problem is that lisas parents wont let her have an official boyfriend. (marks dont care). they want to go out together, but lisa doesnt want to upset her parents. i have been going to movies and letting them cuddle while i act as a third wheel so that lisa doesnt get in trouble with her mom. this has been fun, and weve done it a few times now. yesterday a friend pointed out to me that they were just using me so that they could be alone. i love those two and they have never before been unfair to me. should i continue to be the 3rd wheel? am i being used or am i being a good friend? what do you think?

2007-01-15 06:38:29 · 2 answers · asked by sarasugar 3 in Family & Relationships Friends

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Have Lisa talk to her parents about the boy. Have Mark go meet her parents. Hopefully they will like him and let her date. Your being a good friend by going along with them but sometimes they abuse it too much. Try just hanging out with one at a time for a few days. They will see how you feel. If Lisa's parents don't want her having a bf she should respect that instead of sneaking around.

2007-01-15 06:52:31 · answer #1 · answered by shiningstars 2 · 0 0

your being a good friend. your 15 first of all.... lisa and mark probably won't get married and have children anyway. if you feel that they have been good friends to you, then try to stay out of their relationship, while still having a relationship with them.
i know you can figure that out.
forget about the people saying that they are just using you. if you feel that, then fine, but if you don't feel that from them, then keep being a friend.

2007-01-15 07:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0 0

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