Well, I go to this gymnastics club and I go there 4 times a week 12 hours a week. No one in my level seems like they want to be my friens, they always try to include my out. They don't like me. Well, I'm more ghetto and they are more girly. There are 6 of us in our group. I'm very quiet most of the time and they are loud and talk about different things. I'm bad and they are goody two shoes. I don't know how to be more of a girly girl. Can you tell me how to act, walk, dress talk, and what to talk about? Because I don't know!
2007-01-15 06:04:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well I'm in this gymnastics classes 2 hours every other day and I been in this group w/ 5 other girls for two years andnone of them want to be my friends. I'm a little shy at first but when I get to know someone I'm not shy and I will say alot. I'm different to them they are just plain girly-girls, and I'm like a ghetto chick. They talk about School and all sorts of things. And I'm not girly nor a tom boyish girl.
2007-01-15 06:25:11 · update #1
Don't change for them. Just be yourself. Talk to them like you do with other friends and they will soon like you too.
2007-01-15 06:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the situation you're in can go in different directions. Are you more tomboyish than "girly"? Do they seem more clique, meaning they hang around and only talk to each other and no one else, that type of thing? It also sounds like you're in the ackward age where "girls are mean" etc...however, you can add a bit of finesse to yourself also. If you're more of a tomboy,that's ok, being quiet doesn't mean anything; just means you;re shy. Basing on what your telling, it sounds like you should stay true to yourself and not to be loud and obnoxious or act 'trashy'. I learned all of these at a young age, I was never popular, loud or in a clique of any kind. I did most things on my own. But I liked it. It sounds like that could be you and there's NOTHING wrong with it. I don't think someone teaching you how to walk, talk, dress etc may even be necessary =)
2007-01-15 06:16:53 · answer #2 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do they try to exclude you or leave you out. Maybe you're actually excluding yourself. You said most of the time you're quiet and they're loud but you also said you're more ghetto. Maybe the reason they can't get close to you is because you're not being yourself. You sound like a cool person. Just be yourself, if they don't like you then its their loss but it sounds like you're not even giving them an opportunity to get to know you. Talk about things you're into. There's bound to be someone there who is into the same things you are (t.v. shows, music, singers, sports).
2007-01-15 06:24:01 · answer #3 · answered by Rianna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pretend to be something you're not!!! They will see you as fake and really not like you. Just be yourself. Try to join in convo and such, but find friends you can relate to. You shouldnt have to change yourself just to be friends with someone
2007-01-15 06:09:35 · answer #4 · answered by jennifer d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself and offer them
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2007-01-15 06:13:49 · answer #5 · answered by Reaper G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be something your not there just people that are SO irritant and refuse to think that if your different you can't be your mate that's just stupid
2007-01-15 06:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by beth f 4 eva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE YOURSELF. No acting.
2007-01-15 06:08:13 · answer #7 · answered by kisses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋