2007-01-15 05:26:03 · 22 answers · asked by Diesel Weasel 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
laziness. people know divorce is easy so they don't work on their marriages. Yes marriage takes work EVERYDAY, even after being married almost 15 yrs *( me ) it still is work. As you grow and learn, you do change but your partner changes as well and adjustments have to be made.
When my husband and I started discussing marriage, divorce was never discussed. Some people go into it thinking well if it doesnt work, we can divorce. That is not the way anyone should go into a marriage thinking.
Marriage is hard work, its constant.
Good luck to those venturing into marriage and for those of us who are still married, carry on!
PS I was 20 when I got married so age has nothing to do with it, good role models play a big part!
2007-01-15 05:31:34 · answer #1 · answered by BoTToms UP 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, I think it's just an easy out when things get tough for a lot of people. I think that loads of people don't understand what a commitment marriage is supposed to be. They think, "Well if it doesn't work out, I can get a divorce." I told my husband, when he asked me to marry him, that he was stuck with me, if he said I do. There was no such word as divorce in my vocabulary! We hope to be the odd ones out someday. Our kids friends will say, "Your parents are still married? How weird!"
2007-01-15 05:32:36 · answer #2 · answered by Patty O' Green 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
obvious lack of commitment, people don't know what they're getting into. they didn't have a good example of marriage growing up. they want to play the field. get married too young. divorce is acceptable. "everyone's doing it". they just end up not liking their partner, so they want out-money sex etc factor into this.
2007-01-15 05:32:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think because most people get married a lot sooner than they should. they dont think about the responsiblities and the outcome of their actions. i also think its because 50 years ago, people were a lot more religious and they didnt just believe they could get a divorce just because they wanted to. it was looked down upon by communities. now days its so common
2007-01-15 05:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by amana5 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Lack of communication, Not trusting each other, and Not knowing each other before tying the knot
2007-01-15 05:34:58 · answer #5 · answered by ?Sherbear ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody believes in commitment, communication and sticking it out anymore. They run at the first sign of conflict.
2007-01-15 05:32:48 · answer #6 · answered by FoxyFoxy, Kickass Drama Queen 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because it is to easy to get a divorce.Couples don't try hard enough to keep the marriage together.I'm married thirty years and had to work hard to stay married.
2007-01-15 05:31:26 · answer #7 · answered by Scarecrow 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
because it's easier to quit when the going gets tough, marriage can be very hard and sometimes you drift so far apart from one another that you can't find your way back.
2007-01-15 05:32:18 · answer #8 · answered by gymspirit 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because people jump into things before getting to know the person. And we all think of ourselves more.
2007-01-15 05:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by cma80 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lack of willingness to compromise.
2007-01-15 05:44:45 · answer #10 · answered by OOGLY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋