2007-01-15 05:25:49 · 59 answers · asked by sunshine 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
first, naturally, end the relationship. the second is up to your own descretion, you should let his wife know, because she has the right to know what the father of her child is doing behind her back. if he's been cheating on her with you, then he'll very likely cheat on her with someone else as well, it would be better for her to find out now than later. if the father of my children was cheating on me, i'd definetly want to know about it. best of luck.
2007-01-15 05:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by LoriBeth 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As you said (from the obvious). Learn from this. Every one is intitled to make a mistake, just don't repeat it. The next man you fall for a few questions about his life hopefully will reveal a wife or girlfriend. Don't let this get you down, don't wallow in pity, go out and mingle with others, you will find your not the first person this has happened to and sadly to say you won't be the last. You just might find your story will help others in the same situation.
2007-01-15 05:39:26 · answer #2 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know bt the obvious you mean break up with him. But you should find out a way to tell his wife let him no what an AWFUL husband she has, and you should also get out of that relationship because obviously he's cheating on both of you , and he has a family you should get out of that because it's better for you and you're giving his wife and his kid maybe a chance to get there family together :)
Good luck
2007-01-15 05:30:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, did ur bf keep the fact that he had a wife? and now a child together with her? well if he is i dont think the relationship between u guys will work out. ur bf will probably say that he doesnt want to leave his wife because they have a child together and this will leave u heart broken since he lied to u and now doesnt want to leave her for u. ur bf is obviously a jerk and if u watch movies liek i do being the third person never works out. so the best thing to do here is to end the relationship before it escaldes into a bigger problem and if his wife finds out there will be even bigger problems!!
2007-01-15 05:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by Daisy! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a disgusting man! Men like him give all men bad names! You need to drop him fast! I would let his wife know immediately. They just had a baby!!? Here she's going through the pains of pregnancy and childbirth while he's off having a good time. Don't continue helping this jerk cheat on his wife AND child.
2007-01-15 05:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, first of all you need too write a letter or call the wife & tell her, then second of all dump his lieing butt & you can beleive this also if he's willing too cheat on his wife then he will cheat on you also if you stay with him . He needs too get his life straight & if his wife wants too try that's between them, not you hun you deserve alot better than that he is not the man for you at all you have too demand respect for yourself from the men you date the old rule of thumb is you treat other people as you want too be treated that goes with everyone not just in relationship's. You also need too do some soul searching & deceide what & how you want too be treated by the man you date or marry in my opionion all women needs too be treated like Queens & men like Kings not waited on hand & foot or just when they want us too either . Dump his rearin NOW !!
2007-01-15 05:48:47 · answer #6 · answered by sweettexasangel12001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but the only thing to do is the obvious!!!!!!!!! BYE -BYE......Come on they just had a baby.....Wash your hands of him and turn the other cheek with dignity and walk away....He will do it again and eventually will get caught. His intentions are most likely NOT to leave his wife and NEW baby.....His intentions are to mess around trying not to ever get caught. It will happen to him it HAS happened. Why cause more pain and drama in yours and everyone Else's life. So he is a Cheat, liar, pig and all around looser. He deceived you and everyone else. Make it his problem not yours...
2007-01-15 05:41:05 · answer #7 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there's an obvious solution why are you asking what to do? Just leave him alone and move on, if you find the need to tell his wife go ahead she deserves to know anyway and at least you wouldn't get the blame he's a lying bastard.He deserves no-one.
2007-01-15 05:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to Tell his wife what he has done. They need a chance to work through this infidelity for the babys sake. You need to back off. I know its the obvious, but its the right thing to do. He is married, enough said.
2007-01-15 05:33:04 · answer #9 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him and move on. If he bothers you tell him that you will tell his wife if he doesn't leave you alone. He will probably just find someone else to cheat with anyway. Not a very good husband. Not a good person at all and he will get caught eventually and divorced most likely.
2007-01-15 05:31:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, once a cheater always a cheater. Leave him , you are lucky you found out before you had his kid. Make a clean break and get involved with someone who is honest, caring, repsectful, and is monogomous. Let me tell you that his wife believes that she is special, and he loves her and wouldnt cheat, because that is what he tells her. So you have to ask yourself what makes you different?? Nothing. He probably tells you the same thing, and his girlfriend before you. So drop him, and find a great guy.
2007-01-15 05:30:41 · answer #11 · answered by raegurl99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋