Im fifteen.
This is exactly what happened to me.
I used to like girls until i was like 12 and a half.
Then i started to you know like guys and all those sexual dessires.
I didn't wanna be.
But i laid on my bed and thought about it.
And it sunked in.
I use to think i was bisexual.
but i didnt feel attracted to girls anymore.
I used to, until like 1 year ago.
Now Im out to my friends and school but not at home.
I say im bi.
but i think im gay.
No offense to the lesbians, i lova yall to death,
But guys are hot!
Oh god the thought of a guys touch... caress... kiss... its hot!
2007-01-15 05:25:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
HUMMMN i know that!
2007-01-15 05:29:37 · update #1
Maybe I liked girls a little.
God this people are so negative.
AND I DID NOT TALK MY SELF INTO IT.
I would never choose to be gay.
all my life will be harder becasue i am.
PS
if i could change being gay
I WOULDNT
straight guys dont know how to dress.
(stereotipycal yes, tre yes)
2007-01-15 05:34:13 · update #2
Dude, you a 'full-fledge' homosexual!
In fact, I'm almost willing to put my last dollar down that you are more gay than those gay people around in your neighbourhood.
The fact you say things like ' ... 'like' ... ' and ' .. oh god .. it was hot . ' Child you are definitely a flaming homosexual.
You are trying to convince yourself that you are - only because you want to protect your manhood against those you feel threatened by.
Girl, put those hands on your hips, and snap one hand in the air - look at your critiques, and say " Darling - you can't get any gayer than I feel - and if that disturbs you honey-child - move to the back of the bus - cuz I have no time for your fuss !"
Stand up .. be proud ... sister's not a mister no more - she a true diva !
muah ..
bga .. wink
2007-01-15 05:46:22 · answer #1 · answered by bga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask, were you really attracted to girls before? Sounds like you weren't. If you truly were, then you had to have had an experience that traumatized you into not wanting girls anymore, which you'd be hiding from your true desires. If this isn't true, then you were never attracted to girls in the first place because attraction doesn't just dissapear. It stays. They only think that changes is your state of mind.
Since you might not have had a state of mind change about girls, I think you were never really attracted to them in the first place, and that your just gay.
And M'aidez!...if you kissed boys, especially more than once, your gay or bi. Blaming the alcohol is a form of denial. Alcohol doesn't force me to do anything so I assume it doesn't to anyone else.
2007-01-15 05:30:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are gay because you have a sexual attraction towards men and not towards women. Thinking that a girl is beautiful or being attracted by her appearance (appreciating how well she dresses), doesn't make you a bi. A lot of gay guys feel a warmness when they see a beautiful woman, but it's not sexual attraction... don't get confused. You can only be bi if you also sexually attracted to women, and I think that's not so in your case.
2007-01-15 05:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by xander 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it started at 12 this could have been your teenage hormones. People change as they are maturing sexually. The age when maybe you really started to think about sex, am i making sense? So you thought about men instead of women so what? Either way i think as long as you're happy with who you are then thats brill. I think you'll feel much better when you come out to your family too. And by the way i think you story is great! Good luck and be happy! :)
2007-01-15 05:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by boopie240 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you were just going along with the social norm because when I was your age I would say I liked this girl because she's pretty and nice but once puberty came I notice I was falling in love with male friends and not girls. I thought about sex with other boys my age and not girls.
2007-01-15 05:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hiya sweetie. that's not that i'm beneficial, yet once you circulate onto YouTube and sort your question you may get assorted video hyperlinks made by human beings who've purely come out or notwithstanding, sharing their reviews. and that i've got lots, so deliver me a message each time lol. Danni x
2016-10-07 04:55:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get it. Autobiography or what? May be rejected by us straight guys its very gay in terms of lines like this:
"But guys are hot!
Oh god the thought of a guys touch... caress... kiss... its hot!"
It seems more like a poem or something.
2007-01-15 05:29:37 · answer #7 · answered by Donovan G 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
your either bi, or gay, it doesnt matter, just go with whatever you want, you dont have to tell anyone, if they know your bisexual, just dont focus on the girls as much, its really none of their business, they think im bi at school because i kissed another boy a cpl of times at a party, and again at another one, but i was honestly drunk, and wer both sort of emo anyway. lolz but dat irrelevant, good luck!!
2007-01-15 05:31:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you did like girls at one time and now you only like boys , I would say you have choosen to be gay.
2007-01-15 05:30:27 · answer #9 · answered by 1diputs 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it's possible you've talked yourself into it. But, whatever you give yourself over to, that will be what holds you captive.
2007-01-15 05:29:40 · answer #10 · answered by Jed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋