i call this guy just to hear his voice for some seconds and then i cut the phone without saying anything and this happens every day ..he is in another country far away from me and im spending too much money just to hear him saying hello ..the problem is that he has got a gf .so .i should stop it ...i just dont know how..his voice gives me so much pleasure and thats why i cant stop it .iv been trying to like the other guys but i just prefer day dreaming about him and repeating his voice in my ear....i need help!
2007-01-15 04:52:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Yes, you do need help. Get a counselor before he reports you for stalking.
2007-01-15 04:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by Gina Chess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the phone number somehow. Try warning yourself before you go to the phone. Te best way I thinkto get rid of an addiction is to find another addiction. T.V. watching is good.
2007-01-15 13:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by scubasss90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know what you are doing ?? you stupid fool..
you are stalking this person ,calling and hanging up ,and say nothing ,are you mad ,do you have a clue what effect your stupidity is having on that person ,have you ever stopped from your irresponsible behaviour and think that
you actually could have devastating effect on him and his family..
How would you like some one to phone you 24/7 and say nothing ,you stupid cow,and you act like scavenger around him hopping he breaks up with g/friend ,how pathetic and low can you get ,,, weirdo
2007-01-15 13:14:34 · answer #3 · answered by JJ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't call it an "addiction" so much as an obsession. I think it may be time to move on, especially since he has a girlfriend and doesn't seem to be waiting on you or sharing the obsession you have.
2007-01-15 12:58:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does the word "stalking" or "harrassment" sound appropriate to you? It does to me. I'm sure he's getting p!ssed off by now and doesn't appreciate the lame phone calls. I'm also sure he knows it's you calling. You're not getting MORE appealing to him - your becoming LESS appealing. I'm sure if he could talk he'd ask you to stop.
2007-01-15 13:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by heathen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's kinda creepy.
Just stop calling him. You really need to. Sure, you can daydream, as long as you don't act it out.
Oh, and to help with the money thing, get a phone card.
2007-01-15 12:58:50 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try aversion therapy. everytime you hear his voice punch yourself in the face. eventually your brain will link his voice with being punched in the face. so unless your a sadomasochist ontop of being a creepy stalker this should work nicely.
2007-01-15 13:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by eskew_obfuscation 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him one more time and record his voice. Then you can play it back anytime you feel the urge. You can even put it on your phone as a ring tone.
2007-01-15 12:58:48 · answer #8 · answered by Jimmytheblade 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Someone did this to me. Eventually they stopped. It was a waste of time. Obviously you know this. If you can't control yourself, get rid of your phone.
2007-01-15 13:05:17 · answer #9 · answered by Frank L. Butterscotch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... that's very odd. Maybe you should see a professional.
2007-01-15 12:57:21 · answer #10 · answered by solitude_in_dark_places 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋