When someone says they are done with u after 14 months together, should u just give up and not try or should u keep trying in hopes of getting another chance? Can love just disappear like overnight?
2007-01-15 04:46:03 · 19 answers · asked by Dale S. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That person did not truly love you and you should not keep trying, You were used by someone who will only continue to use you if you give them the opportunity to do so and if you keep tagging along begging for acceptance, love, and attention from that person...it happens, just don't let it happen to you again. Move on with your life and sever all ties with the abuser.
2007-01-15 04:52:22 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone tells you it is over, you need to respect what they are saying! No, love doesn't disappear overnight, but the way you feel is not necessarily the way she felt.
If she broke it off due to something you did to hurt her, than you need to focus on yourself. Truly understand what you did to drive her away, give her a meaningful apology, and hope for the best. If she broke it off just because she was ready to move on, then let her move on. If she wants there to be a second time around, she'll let you know.
2007-01-15 04:52:39 · answer #2 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think love can't disappear over night if a person is truly in love. Jut as I feel love takes time to grow love takes time to fade. You don't just say I don't love you any more over night if you weren't actually in love. You may of done all you can in your relationship and that person tried to fall in love but I don't think they were really in love. You can't make anyone love you it has to come from there own heart. Sounds like she really tried but you did all you could. Try to let go and go through the healing process. If you give her the space and time she may someday realize what she may have lost with you and come back around. Don't wait for something that may never come back around. You need to go on with your life and find happiness within yourself first and then else where.
2007-01-15 05:18:29 · answer #3 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes well you can get over that person overnight, but it all depends on you and how you deal with the situation. Just remember one thing that you will always find love because their are plenty of fish in the sea.
2007-01-15 04:54:07 · answer #4 · answered by nonestopchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live does not just disapear over night so think back before ya'll broke up was somthing different
if she needs her space give it to her after she has had her space and time also take this time to think about weather or not you want her back if you do talk to her ask her why ya'll broke up and see if there is any hope of fixing what ever the problem was and if she says there is no chance then leave her alone and move on with your life
2007-01-15 04:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by ihearthim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, things do change... If you really love this person, give it one more shot, just don't overdo it. If she really means it's over, offer her friendship, a big part of heartache is losing someone, so if you two are no longer bf/gf, gain a friendship at least. Don't push yourself on someone that can't love you the way you deserve to be loved. There are many chics out there buddy!
2007-01-15 04:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by just curious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if the person didn't really love in the first place,love can 'disappear overnight'.maybe u should leave the person alone,give them space,if it was meant to be then u would get together maybe in the future
2007-01-15 04:51:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life, pardner. I'm sure you're a great guy and will find someone else who's good for you. You might at least be able to salvage a great friendship out of your recently ended relationship if you show him/her some respect by giving them some space.
2007-01-15 04:51:35 · answer #8 · answered by Gene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the girl you are dating. You could have had a slimy b**** who liked you for your stuff. Or you could've let go of an angel you were supposed to be with the rest of your lives. Wait a couple of days, if your heart still isn't begging for her to come into your life, then she isn't worth it. But, yes love can just dissappear over night.
2007-01-15 04:50:54 · answer #9 · answered by Maddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't push it too hard now.
and love can't disappear overnight, that goes slowly, but we don't see it. and the biggest reason why it happens is because we all take love and that other person for granted
2007-01-15 04:52:23 · answer #10 · answered by deana m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋