my husband is a really good guy and i know he wont cheat on me,but i always dream that he leaves me or cheats on me.Why?what s wrong with me?
2007-01-15 04:30:14 · 11 answers · asked by manolaxox 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
If you're dreaming about it, then your mind isn't as convinced as your fingers are when you typed that. Our dreams are ways our brain tries to explain things while we're sleeping. Sounds, and feelings can influence our dreams. When I was much younger I dreamt I was being chased by a moose. I believe it was a reflection of a fear I already had of trying to understand and deal with something I had little experience with. The moose just fit in nicely because of the noise a train was making as it passed our house. Sounded like hoofs pounding, so my brain translated that into the moose. I think you need to admit to yourself you don't trust your husband fully, and perhaps discuss that issue with him.
There's nothing wrong with you, your brain is just still working as you sleep with much less information to rely on. It could also be that you're smelling something (faint perfume, hair you're not familiar with) ... any of your senses could be triggering those thoughts subconsiously somehow .. but I'd hate to make you seem paranoid by going over him with a fine tooth comb. Just talk.it out.
2007-01-17 21:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by thellord_thighgod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are based on your daily life, the people and facts that surround you each day. From there, your dreams may pursue a variety of paths, but they often incorporate the people closest to you. You probably are very much in love, so your relationship with Hubby matters a lot. Your dreams capture your fear of losing that anchor in your life.
Wow, Ken looks like my twin brother. He even buys the same suits.
2007-01-15 04:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by Blu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams mean nothing. They really don't. They are simply your subconcious trying to sort things out while you sleep. I would say only that your dream means that for some reason you are uinsecure and that his cheating is how your brain manifests that fear.
2007-01-15 04:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might just be scared deep down that he will cheat on you, or he may actually be cheating on you and your unconscious mind is manifesting all of the evidence that your conscious mind cannot deal with.
2007-01-15 04:47:39 · answer #4 · answered by Chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with you
check out the post about cheating in dreams at http://spirita.blogspot.com/, hope you'll feel better after reading it
2007-01-15 06:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you feel like cheating on him sometimes...you know you never get to think of anything else than usual things except when you yourself sometimes do it or even just imagine it(no offense there).so you feel like "What if my husband does the same?"...i hope you know what i mean by this
2007-01-15 04:47:48 · answer #6 · answered by The dude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) your dreams are warning you of what is happening or what might happen in the future
2) it's a secret fear you have, and comes out through that unconscious part of your mind in your sleep
2007-01-15 07:03:11 · answer #7 · answered by some1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu are insecure and need to speak to him about your fears and get it out in the open. Whether it is true or not is besides the point.
2007-01-19 01:09:01 · answer #8 · answered by kyishiafrazier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is actually cheating on you and you just haven't found out yet
2007-01-15 04:37:25 · answer #9 · answered by ken s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i dreamt that he was. yeah, everyone thought he was such a good guy too.
2007-01-15 04:37:28 · answer #10 · answered by nodumgys 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋