Do you wish you had saved yourself for marriage?

Answer 1

Yes. Why? Because it was a treasure that should have only been given away to the one I was going to spend the rest of my life with. And, the older I get, the more I realize that some things are worth waiting for. <*)))><

Answer 2

No because I think if you do then how do you know your partner is the best. And I think if you save yourself for marriage then your just setting yourself up to cheat cause you know you'll be wondering what else is out there.

Answer 3

I am making that wish come true.


This is how I feel about it ...

You should stay a virgin till you're married.
God intended it to be that way.
But many, MANY people abuse that.
And God looks down on those people.

You don't just give your virginity to just anybody.
It is the best present you can give your future husband.
It is you... it is all of you.

If you become pregnant, you can handle it better when you're married.
You'll have that person beside you who promised to always be by your side.
It won't be some random guy or some guy who you THOUGHT loved you.

Sex makes many things complicated in an unmarried relationship.
It takes two very mature people.
You do not want to get yourself lost in everything that comes with sex.
Most people nowadays tend to just BASE their relationship on sex.

I am a virgin myself. I have a boyfriend of almost a year that I am completely in love with. We talk about marriage and how I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...

Answer 4

No way Jose! I don't think men or women should save themselves. How will you ever know what you like if you don't give them all a try. Now I can look at a girl and know exactly what she is about. Sure I might wonder what her boobs look like or something! But for the most part I know were it leads and I know I have been there done that! If you don't find out what you like or don't like you might never know if you got what you wanted. Nothing is worse then wondering....

Answer 5

I'm not sure about saving myself for marriage but I do wish that I at least thought all my decisions through. I am now with someone that i love dearly and all the experiences that I shared with others i wish that they could have been them with him and I regret everything that I've done in the past.

Answer 6

I do wish that I had never been with anyone else, because they were all jerks. But I wouldn't know how wonderful my husband is if I hadn't had all the selfish, uncaring, inexperienced guys in my past. I've been married almost a year, and have found that even though I had sex many times before him, I had never been MADE LOVE to ever before in my life. I feel like I WAS a virgin in a sense, when I met him. I knew nothing about a man's body and still know very little considering my age. I've also found that he knows more about my body than I do. We both know that no one ever appreciated either one of us like we appreciate each other. I'm having issues with trust because of my wild past and the untrustworthy guys I've known for the past 25- 30 years. Every guy I ever knew before my husband was not to be trusted, though I naively did. Now because of my past, I'm fighting to trust him, but I keep finding myself being afraid of not being good enough to keep him like all the others. I was also married before to one of these jerks.
Sorry, I didn't mean to get carried away. My answer is yes and no for various reasons.

Answer 7

Yes i saved myself for marriage and now i am enjoying my married life.

Answer 8

No, I wish I had saved myself from my first marriage.

Answer 9

Absolutely.

Answer 10

Don't you mean saved yourself from marriage?