2007-01-15 04:10:56 · 35 answers · asked by Whats Up? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes I would. I don't want some other guy to get her all broken in. That is the special part, being the first to penetrate her.
2007-01-15 04:16:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
In some cultures ansd societies its imperative that the girl and the boy ofcourse stay virgins until marriage.
Saving your body for someone you love and someone you will spend the rest of yourlife with I think is cool, however nowadays the definition of cool gets dictated by the M-TV culture, a culture of permissiveness, and giving in to basic instincts. A culture dictated by "anything you do is okay so long as you buy the stuff we advertise"
Im sure most men are'nt comfortable with the knowledge that their girls have been "sleeping around" before.
I for one would marry a girl that was a Virgin!
2007-01-15 04:25:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!
Because sex is a large part of a marriage and if you are not sexually compatible with your husband to be, or if your husband to be is not sexually compatible with you, he will not stay faithfull. That's the bottom line.
However, dating is different. I have been on a date with several platonic friends, going out dancing and drinking or whatever. But actually being in a relationship with someone who is saving herself for marriage is ..... out of the question for me and every man I know.
Don't get me wrong. If you are not of the age, where you are able to have sex, then I definately would not be considering jumping in the sack with someone. Some of my friends in my teenage years were sexually active way before I was. My junior year in highschool at age 16 is when I first had intercourse. I dated her for a while before we had sex and didn't force it on her. The time was just right. If you find someone you are physically attracted to, and get the emotional connection you also desire, then when the time is right and the feeling is mutual, I would go for it. Just use protection, make sure he wears a condum, and explore your sexual side... when and if you are ready to.
I don't know anyone who has ever waited until they were married to have sex for the first time. One would wonder if they would ever desire to have sex with another person, as they have not "Sewn thier oats" so to speek!
2007-01-15 04:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know I'm not a man and I know this doesn't answer your question. But I just wanted the men who won't wait to read what I have to say about this.
This is how I feel about it ...
You should stay a virgin till you're married.
God intended it to be that way.
But many, MANY people abuse that.
And God looks down on those people.
You don't just give your virginity to just anybody.
It is the best present you can give your future husband.
It is you... it is all of you.
If you become pregnant, you can handle it better when you're married.
You'll have that person beside you who promised to always be by your side.
It won't be some random guy or some guy who you THOUGHT loved you.
Sex makes many things complicated in an unmarried relationship.
It takes two very mature people.
You do not want to get yourself lost in everything that comes with sex.
Most people nowadays tend to just BASE their relationship on sex.
I am a virgin myself. I have a boyfriend of almost a year that I am completely in love with. We talk about marriage and how I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...
2007-01-15 04:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
well sweety , i want to say "STAND FIRM" there are men out here that have the up most respect for a woman who has not been so easily persuades by several other men.. i can only dream that i was a virgin still.. but i have given my life to the lord and i am clean sober and sex free for close to a year now..so being that i have given my life to the lord = i will not be having any kind of sex with anyone until i am in fact "MARRIED".. well thank you for allowing me to speak my mind and good work younglady..
2007-01-15 04:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by anthony m 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i imagine it truly is a distinctly intelligent answer. i myself am waiting until eventually marriage. Having sex creates emotional ties for a pair, that is an intimate thanks to certain your love for one yet another. or perhaps regardless of the reality that you already lost your virginity, that would not make it stupid so you should elect on to attend now. you're the same man or woman that you've been again then, and it is your coronary heart that concerns. preserve your coronary heart, and save it threat-free until eventually you meet the only which you adore. there's a aspect called second virginity, and that i imagine you're fairly smart for making the alternative you've made. <3 CJ
2016-11-24 19:13:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no, and no.
There is hardly anything as important to a pair-bonding as sexual compatibility. What are you going to do if you get married and then discover that your sex drive and her sex drive (or sex interests) are different? True sexual compatibility needs to be established or marriage is failure waiting to happen.
This is the modern world, where women are now sexual equals to men... sheesh virginity at marriage for the days when women got married at 13.
2007-01-15 04:21:38 · answer #7 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Virginity will prove one thing for sure that she has the respect to save herself for marriage and that is good, but it doesn;t gurantee that the marriage will survive because of that. When a woman fails in mariage after getting married a virign, there are many things that will climb in her mind and it can be very painful and lead to depression.
Virginity is as such what it is a woman that has not yet had a sexual encounter.
2007-01-15 04:15:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
A real man would. But most boys, regardless of their age are impatient. They want what they want, and when they want it. How they get it is of no consequence. The only problem is that real men take time to mature. Then they are a bit older. So, if you are resolved in being a virgin and want NO pressure from a guy to change your mind, settle for an older man, or wait till you are an older woman, then marry an older man.
2007-01-15 04:17:18 · answer #9 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Difficult to say. While sex is not the be all, end all of a relationship it is an integral part. I personally would be mortified to wait until marriage only to find out that the sexual compatibility was not there
2007-01-15 04:16:33 · answer #10 · answered by nascarlovindad 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My brother is dating a woman who's waiting for marriage and he's been with her for well over a year. So yes, there are men out there who will.
2007-01-15 04:14:44 · answer #11 · answered by blhenne 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋