I used to be extremely motivated and determined with everything I did. Now, I'm lazy, and I have no motivation. My whole apartment is cluttered, and I hate it, but I can't seem to motivate myself to do anything.
What happened? How do I regain that fire?
2007-01-15 04:01:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
First write down your realistic goals!
I work 12 hour days 5 days a week and keep my home in order, take care of a pet, do online schooling and have a realtionship!
I manage my time through a schedule that is FLEXible and yet something I can do, on friday, saturday and sundays after my naps i pick up (but I only ahve a bit to do) after work I take my dog for a 5-10 minuet walk, then fix dinner relax and go to bed at a decent time. I see my Boyfriend, Tuesday, Thursday, Friday Saturday Sunday, I do school work Monday and Wednesdays. I do house work on days I have extra time, I even have time for dinner parties, the day of those I tend to vacume or shampoo carpets. I suggest maybe getting a day off for personal time for house work, it's hard with expenses but will be worth it.
Sleep in then clean best you can throw things away then on weekends all you need to do is 3 loads of laundry and dishes
2007-01-15 04:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by Juleette 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
oh man
I can't clean at all anymore
I completely lost the motivation to do it
but you know what really helps
get a friend or sister to help you
make it fun, listen to music
need help finding things to organize with then turn on home improvement/makeover shows
and just do it
don't wait around
motivate yourself to go to a gym by telling a friend to meet you there or setting up an appointment with a trainer - really does help
and actually buying fun sort of cleaning products like the swiffer.. makes me want to use them
haha
2007-01-15 12:09:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Motivation (for me) comes with confidence...and I get a major confidence boost when I accomplish something...anything! All of those little things in the back of your mind that you put off (no matter how small), build up and create anxiety before you know it. Make a priority list...and don't let it get too long! The easiest way to get things done is to just get off your *** & do it immediately.
It sounds basic because it is...get off your ***.
=)
2007-01-15 12:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you find out I want to know. I curse answers because I sit on here when I should be doing all sorts of other stuff. Damn you answers, I wish I had never found you!
2007-01-15 12:05:26 · answer #4 · answered by crct2004 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Any particular reason that made you loose your motivation? Find it and control it.
2007-01-15 12:04:46 · answer #5 · answered by Slay Specialist 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am going thruogh a similar thing. I can only suggest that you tell your self if you do achieve this or that, then you will go and do something you like
2007-01-15 12:04:20 · answer #6 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Start inviting people over; then you'll want to clean.
2007-01-15 12:03:57 · answer #7 · answered by Dana Katherine 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Imagine a beautiful woman/male ( I don't know your gender or orientation) is coming to your apartment tomorrow. Would you want him/her to see it in this condition?
2007-01-15 12:04:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
join a gym
2007-01-15 12:03:57 · answer #9 · answered by narcissa 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋