Have you been attracted to another person? If so what did you do about it? Have you come across other people flirting with you? If so what did you do about it?
2007-01-15 03:51:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think it's uncommon to be attracted to another person. Just because you're attracted to someone doesn't mean you have to act on it.
I find it kind of flattering when someone flirts with me. I just put it in my memory bank and pull it out when I'm feeling unattractive. No need to do anything else with it.
2007-01-15 04:03:29 · answer #1 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you never ever read another question here? 9 out of 10 questions are about this. Geeze. Keep in mind there are 3 billion people on this planet. Even if you could possibly only attracted to 1/10th of 1% of them, that still leads 3 million people. You gotta figure you might run across 2 out of 3 million at the same time eventually. What you do about it is based your personal beliefs.
2007-01-15 12:05:08 · answer #2 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had several occasions where I was attracted to someone and they were attracted to me. So far I have not acted on it because I view myself as an honest and honorable man. I know honorable seems out dated, but I treat my promise very seriously and my sense of honor is deep rooted in my character. However, I do believe if the right situation did arise I would cheat on my wife. Now you maybe ask yourself how I can justify myself saying that, the answer is my wife has already broken our wedding vows by having an affair. I'm not actively looking for an affair, but I don't feel obligated to keep my end of a promise if the other person has already failed to keep theirs.
2007-01-15 12:23:36 · answer #3 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. It's human nature. it's funny that no one ever explains to you on your wedding day that there will be other people you find attractive and also may feel a connection to. You will meet someone one day that will shake your beliefs to the core and make you question your choice in partners. We should all be prepared for this, and really really make sure the person you are with is Not Mr/Ms. Right now.
2007-01-15 12:00:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course I have. It's what you do with it that counts. If someone flirts with you your not in control with that. What your in control is how you react to it. When that has happen to me. I smile. And its a wonderful feeling from the inside that someone besides my man thinks of me as cute in flirts with me too. I just never acted on it. Never took there number or never had a long talk with them, except the few minutes to let them know am in a relationship and it was up to me to walk away from it. In of course I do (when it happens) if I don't that's how affairs happen. In being a attracted to someone else I think that comes from what ed some intention from someone besides your man or women at home. Your looking for more. I think it's almost normal to feel attracted to someone else from time to time, because I know I have, but it all falls back to how YOU react towards it. You can play the game in get caught up in a web (cheating) or not. Its really up to you to walk.
2007-01-15 14:27:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have been married for 10 years and have been attracted to a few people, but I just ignore it, as far as flirting that is so much fun I love to flirt Its harmless and does wonders for your ego
2007-01-15 12:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by paula_5150 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have been with my hubby for 12 yrs and their have been two times that I felt attracted to another person
One was my boss him and his wife was my friend it was a little crush and I never told them or acted on it.
The other time was a co-worker that I had grown close to but he was gay and I think the attraction was because he was very intelligent and we saw eye to eye on a lot of things I never let him know that I was attracted to him.
2007-01-15 12:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by little lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who hasn't? I'm sure you've heard it said, "I'm married, not dead!" Attraction is inevitable. It's what you do about it that matters.
2007-01-15 14:58:46 · answer #8 · answered by Janelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋