so i am mainly venting - but i welcome any comments or insight...
my girlfriend of 6 months just got a new job through a temp agency. she is 7 months pregnant and we have a house together and i have totally commited myself to her and the child. (we are lesbians by the way) she is divorced now but was once married to this guy - anyway, i don't doubt her sexuality i just feel very uncomfortable with her ex working there too. she is a recovering addict (5 years clean) and that's all her relationship with him was about. the first month she and i were together i cheated on her once. we've worked it out and i dont think its a problem for her anymore. would i be totally off base to ask her to request that the temp agency place her somewhere else? or do you think my insecurities have something to do with the fact that I'M the one who was unfaithful at one time? i have been with guys before too, but the thought of her doing it makes me uncomfortable.
2007-01-15 03:30:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
her pregnancy is a result of a one night stand before we got together. i know for a fact she has been faithful to me thus far...
2007-01-15 03:34:01 · update #1
You had a little mishap and you fixed it. Her ex wow! You should try to find out if he still has feeling for her. But the memories of being an addict can be either good or bad. I hope her memories are bad enough to make her not want to do anything again. But she will probably want the baby to be happy and healthy so she will choose the best for her baby which is with you. Have a good life.
2007-01-15 03:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by LouZJ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a victim of your own insecurities and if you don't get them under control you will screw up your relationship. The fact that she told you about her ex working there should demonstrate to you that she is not hiding anything. To suggest to the temp agency to place her elsewhere is a violation of your gf's boundaries to make work decisions for herself. Your control issues are "out of control." Back off.
2007-01-15 03:37:12 · answer #2 · answered by morahastits 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend's ex started a business and ask for my girlfriend to work with her. Knowing they would be side by side everyday did make me very uncomfortable. I know her ex is still deeply in love with her but I know my girlfriend no longer feels the smae way for her ex. Talk to your girlfriend find out how she really feels about you and how she feels about her ex. Your going to have to work over your insecurities. It will be hard but if you wanna keep your girl thats going to be the only way. Good luck.
2007-01-15 03:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait, enable me understand this. you want to grant you ex an section to stay WITH you in a three mattress room living house. What about your lady friend. that is not the right time to flow for the ex because she remains legally married and consider way too a lot emotions for her. that is an truly complicated difficulty, i do not recognize what i ought to do. undergo in ideas she has a baby, and there is continuously 2 aspects to each and each tale. good success:)
2016-11-24 19:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you don't trust her.
That doesn't bode well for your relationship.
2007-01-15 03:33:20 · answer #5 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋