why is it that grown men prey on young girls what is it that they lacked as a child what do u think about it?

Question

and i feel that once they do it once and get away with it they will continue to do it again.

Answer 1

They are not real men. They are sick, sorry people who will eventually get what they deserve. The scary thing about it is that it's always someone you wouldn't expect...Take it from me...
I feel like it is just so easy...I mean it takes practically nothing to get laid....By an adult. You can go to the local pub and hook up with someone within an hour.... It ain't hard...SO, if you are that messed up in the head that you need to go after someone's CHILD...There's a special place in Hell for you.

Answer 2

Your questions is confusing to a point. There are two definitions to your questions and they each have different answers, so I will answer both.

1. why is it that grown men prey on young girls what is it that they lacked as a child what do u think about it? Meaning Guys and minor girls.

This is simple there is an innocence that is there and a power thing that turns guys on that are into this sick crap. Not all guys are into and those that do look for this crap are either very insecure and need the power stuff or twisted and need help. Power ones need prison and twisted need help.

2. why is it that grown men prey on young girls what is it that they lacked as a child what do u think about it? Menaing older guys and younger but legal women.

This is usually dealing with older men's need to feel attractive. A lot like women needing the same support from men. Women tend to get it just from guys looking at them. they can tell if they are still attractive by the way men look at them. Men on the other hand equate attractiveness with sex. The younger the woman the more attractive the man feels.

As for men being attracted to younger women. 18 - 25 is a women's most attractive time frame. It is natural that men (who are visual creatures) are attracted to them.

Answer 3

Define "prey" If you are indeed a concerned mother and somethings happened to your daughter I hope that you are not looking the other way due to the fact that the grown men who prey may be living under your roof or someone you know. You are right generally speaking that once someone does something and gets away with it they will continue to do it again.Please be supportive of your daughter and do not allow her to be vulnerable to these "grown men who prey" and believe what she tells you.Dont worry about what these men lacked as a child,worry about the child now,who needs an adult for guidance and support.You may be her only hope.

Answer 4

nicely, i'm getting what you're declaring, and that i do imagine that a 50 12 months previous with a 20-something 12 months previous is slightly severe (regardless of if it does ensue), yet as you become older the hollow closes. operating example a 22 12 months previous and a 14 12 months previous sounds gross- it truly is gross, yet what about a 32 12 months previous with a 24 12 months previous? similar age distinction, notwithstanding it would not sound as disgusting. I do believe that quicker or later in time (50 and 20-something) that is not love, that is something else (money). yet that is my opinion. i have by no skill been in that severe of a difficulty to assert for reality regardless of the reality that.

Answer 5

I think grown men prey on young girls because they need to be in CONTROL of something. Some people view things (women, girls: children: young boys) as property, not individuals- and when they lack control in a situation they pick out their subjects to take it out on; they look for someone who looks weak to them. It's easier for a lion to pick out the weakest animal in a hunt, They look at who is at the end of the herd or pack, they sense out their weakness and then they jump on it and destroy it. Some people are the same way, they study their victims, they get a sense of their characteristics, their weaknesses and they play on that. If it's a family member, or close friend, they base things on ownership. (ex; you have a deed to your house to prove that it's yours; you have a title to your car to prove ownership; then you have a birth cirtificate showing that you own that child, it's yours-- and sometimes when people view things as property, they think they can do anything they want to because it't theirs.) That is a wrong way to view children but men feel like they need to be in control of situations in their life. It's bred into them, and if they don't have control then they seek out something or someone that they can control. If that is their problem, then I agree if they don't get help it will go on until someone puts a stop to it. It's a cycle, and things could get worse and young people could be desroyed by the actions of a perp. Also, I think some men get a charge out of stealing innocense from young children, it feeds their perversion. But again as I said before, It's a control thing. If you are a mother or relative or even a friend of a young person who is being victimized by this, don't stand by and let it continue, believe me it will effect that child for the rest of her/his life. And once it's done it's a very hard thing to get over. I want to state that I'm not a man hater, not all men fall into into this catagory, but I am a victim of the other types of men that are out there.
Good luck, I hate to know about children who are going thru this type of abuse. So please, don't let this go on.

Answer 6

It's a sickness. Something evidently happened to them as a child and they cannot break the pattern. They need help for sure. Anyone who knows of any of these men should report them immediately. Then maybe they can get the help they need and all of us Mothers can get some relief and finally be able to sleep at night.

Answer 7

It's all about power and control. They prey on these young girls because the girls want to be loved and want someone to be there for them. That makes them vulnerable.

Answer 8

It is probably because they lack the confidence to make love to a grown woman. I guess they figure a 13 year old won't have any experience to compare them against. Who knows?

Answer 9

Fact is, younger women are more attractive. Studies have shown that no matter how old a guy is, or how strong his morals are, he will always feel attracted to young women. Wether or not he does anything to supress these urges is what determines if he becomes a child predator.

Answer 10

Are you talking about underage children or girls 18+????

If it is underage, then they are paedophiles... If over 18, then they just want some soft flesh to enjoy rather than the saggy stuff they might be married to... Or just divorced...

They want to feel young and desired...