Over the weekend my boyfriend and I got into a fight. Maybe i blew it up a little but here is what happened. I am 15 weeks pregnanct and very emotional, also insecure right now. Well twice when i went on the computer to check my mail I found two profiles of woman, premiscuous profiles. I quetioned him about it and he says hes not doing anything, but i can't help but think that he is. Well I practically moved out over the weekend, and this morning he called and begged me to come home. Says he really loves me and promised me that he is not doing anything and never has. He says he loves me even more since we are having a baby together.
I really dont know what i should do.Part of me really wants to beleive that he didn't do anything but the other half of me keeps saying not to trust him. Any advice anyone can give would be great. Thanks. And PLEASE no rude comments.
2007-01-15 02:54:05 · 6 answers · asked by Tasha 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do you have a reason to not trust him? You said it yourself, you are very emotional at this point. If he's never strayed before there is no reason to think he is now. Give him the benefit of the doubt and let him take care of you and your new baby. If you find actual proof that he's straying then deal with that when it happens but try not to stress yourself out by imagining things or searching for reasons to be mad at him. Chances are he's a good guy and someone was just flirting with him. I have a flirty profile and i talk to a lot of old friends. I have no bad intentions with them, my flirt goes towards the guys I'm dating, not them. And if you keep finding the profiles and want to, ask him who they are... Maybe they are friends from way past, or friends of a sibling, they may be someone you even know. But don't think poor of him until he gives you an actual reason. Good luck and congrats on your baby!
2007-01-15 03:00:41 · answer #1 · answered by blhenne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you may be a little emotional because you are pregnant. Pregnancy can be a trying time for a relationship. It's exciting and a little scary! Has he ever given you a reason not to trust him in the past? If the answer is no, then just let it go. If the answer is yes then you have some trust issues and you have a big decision to make. Bottom line is talk to him and get to the bottom of this, you have a baby on the way. Good Luck!!
2007-01-15 11:04:47 · answer #2 · answered by confused2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should trust your own boyfriend.
But then again... you are pregnant... and you aren't married.
So you have every right to feel insecure.
I say don't let the insecurity get the best of you and ruin what you have with the father of your child.
2007-01-15 10:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a profile, no chat records..may be someone else use the pc while you both were away, you have to give trust to your BF, i'm sure you never find him or see him with someone else.......
Give your relationship a chance....
2007-01-15 11:03:18 · answer #4 · answered by *Cutie* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say trust him men always have to look at weird things only. But it doest always mean what you think. You also have to give it a try for your child. good luck
2007-01-15 11:03:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him
2007-01-15 11:02:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋