2007-01-15 02:31:06 · 36 answers · asked by Halo Mom 7 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Absolutely! If you are healthy and have a healthy baby, you will make some couple that is unable to conceive on their own very happy.
2007-01-15 02:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by Forward Kindness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because i would want to keep my baby that i made and had u can get people to help you out but that is just my opinion if u think there is no possible way to rise the child or if u think your not ready and then theres still the possibility that u just dont want the child but if u are considering adoption u should contact the local adoption agencies and ask around for any good families for ur child and before u o it u hould give the family an interview and make sure they are the right family for ur baby and u should also think about u cant get the baby back when u are ready like the crazed mothers on television u shouldnt rush such a BIG decision take time to think and make SURE it is the RIGHT thing and wut u want 2 do not wut anybody else does.
2007-01-15 02:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think i would be able to give up my baby. BUT i think adoption is a wonderful thing. I hope to adopt a child one day, and a young baby would most likely have a home before it was even born. IF you would have trouble supporting a child or simply dont feel ready it could be okay. I think it is a better option than abortion but that is completely a personal opinion. Good luck honey!
2007-01-15 02:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by tcb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let the people on here scare you away from adoption. Have you thought of open adoption?? My sister did that with her son. She was able to meet and pick the family he went to and till this day (9 years later) they still keep in touch. He knows who my sister is (and he even knows who I am) and why she put him up for adoption. There are no hard feeling just love between them. My advice to you sit down and honestly ask yourself....are you going to be able to give your whole heart to this child?? Are you going to be able to settle down?? Not go out with friends, what about school?? Do you have the support you are going to need?? Go to a Women's center and talk to a councilor they will help you with whatever choice you make. Good Luck and I hope everything works out for you!
2007-01-15 03:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by thurtlebee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 16 , pregnant and single and kept my baby. I made it threw high school and am now in college, never once did adoption cross my mind.
The fact of the matter is you never know who your child is going to end up with, they allow so many freaks to adopt kids these days such as child molesters. There have been thousands if not millions of kids adopted and abused and some have even been murdered, never would I want to take the chance of my child getting stuck with one of those freaks.
2007-01-15 03:14:50 · answer #5 · answered by Diamonds_Glow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a noble and a brave option.
It is better than abortion.
yes i would,
i was a young mom and it was very hard. i was 17 ,
It was so hard, i had support. i was married but it didn't last, most teen marriages don't. I raised my children by myself and family helped.my children are grown, and turned out well, they are the light of my heart, Everything i gave took all i had.
are you prepared to do this. either way is going to be tough
You have to think really hard
motherhood changes you for ever
you have to consider are you prepared to be a parent.
how much support do you have. And are you strong enough to either be a single parent or give the baby up. It is not what people think, but you God bless hard road to go down
2007-01-15 02:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by tennessee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was single and pregant then I'd consider ethier keeping the baby or putting up for adoption so the child could grow up and live a life. It would be wrong to abort it and kill an inocent child.
2007-01-15 02:34:00 · answer #7 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if i knew i couldnt care for the child i would abort it before it was to late, but if i got past that point i would find a way to make it work, so no i wouldnt put my child up for adoption, however, I am not opposed to adoption, because I would rather see a mom with enough integrity to give her kid a chance in the world, instead of spending her life struggling to make ends meet- then getting pissed and eventually hurting the kid.
2007-01-15 02:39:16 · answer #8 · answered by shannon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONLY as a last resort. It's something you may regret or may affect you mentally-even 20 years later. The gov't is there to help if you're a single mom. You'll fall in love with your baby as soon as you see him/her, I am THIS sure!!! I'm glad that nowhere in your question was the word: ABORTION. I'm proud of you. You're already thinking on the right track. God bless!
2007-01-15 02:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought about giving my oldest up for adoption, only til I heard her heartbeat, then all those thoughts went out the window. She's eight now. You have to think about how you would handle it if you did. If you gave the baby up, would you be able to cope? I had help, there is help out there. Check with child supports enforcement and social services. They can help if your parents won't. Good luck.
2007-01-15 02:37:52 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much help and surport would you have is probably a question i would ask myself. I think their are also councling sessions you can go to (your doctor should be able to advise when) Search all the options before you make a decision because your not always gonna be young and single.
2007-01-15 02:35:57 · answer #11 · answered by Littleblonde-kacey is here 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋