ok so im 14 and my bf came 2 arizona to come see his great unt and then came to see me, so we were in my house in my room with the door shut then we started kissing and then we had sex, i dont know if he used a condom and he wasnt a virgin, i was and i dont know if im pregnant, my life is screwed up enouh(read my old questions) and i dont need u to tell me how stupid i am, and i live with my soppokni and amaafo(gramma and grampa) so if i am pg(didnt get my period , and i was supossed to 3 days ago) and i dont know what they would do to me, i dont know if they make me stay with my parents again, please help !!!
2007-01-15 02:08:54 · 9 answers · asked by koi 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
stress could cause your period to not come on time...but the best thing you could do is to tell your grandma and grandpa...believe me, i know how scared you must feel...i was in the same situation...if you are pregnant, you need to see the doctor and talk about your optons...you could even talk to your guidance counseler at school...they WILL help you...PLEASE tell someone
2007-01-15 02:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by Carolyn R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be late or even miss your period if you are stressing out over being pregnant, if you stress out enough you can end up convincing your body you are pregnant and your body will start showing pregnancy symptoms even though your not really pregnant.
What you did was dumb and very irresponsible, the first thing you should always do is make sure a guy is wearing a condom, you might want to start worrying about STD's and I really suggest you go get tested. Just because someone claims they do not have an STD means nothing, thousands of people have it and claim they do not and thousands do not even know they have an STD.
I think you need to hold off on sex until you are more responsible and educated on sex.
2007-01-15 11:18:50 · answer #2 · answered by Diamonds_Glow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
koi =[ you would have known if he used a condom or not. ask him. im sure he will tell you.! didnt i tell you to keep out of trouble! your period may be late due to stress cause of this situationa nd your previous situations. are your periods regulare? you are still young so they may still be irregular. just pary that you arent thats the last thing you need right now! but ask him if he used one of not. you wouldve known if he used one or not as well did he c u m in you/..??? or pull out?/ etiher way you could be pregnant if you do have regular period when did this incident occur?? this could have happened in yoru low risk days.. i hope it is! ... i hope you arent pregnant.. please use some protection next time honey. you can always email me if you want to talk.
you also want to get checked out for HIV and otherstds though. definately since you say he has been wiht other women..
2007-01-16 01:26:14 · answer #3 · answered by laa dee da 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a person is in too much stress, that could delay the mense. go get a pregnancy test kit and if it turns out positive, get help or counselling from school. Then tell ur grandparents. It'll help get the load off. And the next step is all up to you :)
All the best and god bless u :)
2007-01-15 10:44:08 · answer #4 · answered by Enchanted Butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a few more days to see if you start, then if you don't, go get a pregnancy test and find out. If you are then you have to tell them, then decide what you want to do next. adoption, or have the baby. then commit yourself to this decision. Try not to let any adults influence your answer.This seems like a nightmare right now, but it will be O.K.
2007-01-15 10:17:52 · answer #5 · answered by susan9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you are scared right now, but you really need to tell someone (an adult) that you trust!!! You are only 14 years old! You are a baby yourself, and you need some guidance.
Maybe wait for another week or two and see if you get your period. If you don't, then you are going to have to talk to someone. If you do, then be very thankful and learn from this experience!!!
I won't preach to you, but if you want to continue to have sex, you really need to protect yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-15 10:53:57 · answer #6 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yoo should probably tell dem cuz if u dont and u r pg, u can really hurt yur self, yur baby and the longer yoo wait the harder its gonna be for u to hide it and they will find out!
2007-01-15 10:29:58 · answer #7 · answered by EYEZ GONNA KILL YOOO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell yur soppokni and amaafo, mine were accualy happy to hear i was pg
2007-01-15 10:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably you are pg! You didn't take any care and probably he doesn't.
2007-01-15 10:42:36 · answer #9 · answered by matuel_loko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋