What do you do when suddenly every aspect of your life seem?

Question

to be crumbling down on you?

Answer 1

Pray.

Answer 2

Of course, it all depends on what you have control of. First, I would spend some time in prayer. Prayer often gives you time to reflect on things that you might not have thought about before, bringing to mind answers to the very things that are troubling you. Too often, people don't think before acting, and often get in a bigger jam because of lack of planning & thought. Then, handle what's in your power to handle. You can't do much about things that are in other people's hands, but you can do what you can to change what's in your hands. If someone else is making life miserable for you, then go to that person and try to work out your issues. If they don't seem to want to work it out, back away for a while. Give them space to think about it. Most times, if given time and space, things often can get cleared up. Not everything can or will be solved just because we want it NOW! Patience, kindness and understanding go a long way. If the person just doesn't want to ever work it out, then leave them in God's hands & move on. It's hard, but do-able. WIthout knowing all the things that are crumbling down on you, it's hard for me to offer much to you. If you're comfortable doing so, e-mail me and I'll be more than happy to offer any help that I can. All I can tell you now is that nothing lasts forever, and every situation has an end, though sometimes not what we expected. Sometimes, waiting out a situation is all you CAN or SHOULD do. Given time, you may be able to see the whole situation better, and can then give it what it truly needs. <*)))><

Answer 3

Find an area that's positive and make that the main focus while you let the other areas sort themselves out. If work is stable, focus on work while you try to sort out your relationship(s), finances, etc.

If your relationship is stable then focus on that while looking for a new job or finding ways to make the current better.

If most everything is falling apart, try to just hang with a buddy to help work through it.

If your finances are in the gutter, look for ways to help reduce your monthly expenses. Downgrade your cable package, downgrade your cell phone package, call your phone company and try to eliminate any services you don't need or aren't using, get on a balanced payment plan from your energy company to minimize seasonal swings, refinance your car or house for lower rates or to free up cash for paying bills, shop for cheaper car insurance.

By the way, when I say focus on whatever area of your life is stable, I don't mean ignore those that are falling apart. You need to give those attention, but you can draw some strength from where you have some stability.

Answer 4

Mostly it is a matter of perspective. Troubles are part of life, always have been and always will be. My husband has terminal cancer and we spend a lot of time at the cancer center. when he sees young children there who also have terminal cancer, his comment always is, "What do I have to complain about? I have had a good life, people who love me, had children and grandchildren." When you feel your life is crumbling find a way to help someone less fortunate than yourself. It usually helps. Additionally, here is a piece of writing I have referred to all my life in times of difficulty. Take care.

Answer 5

I've noticed that when things are going desperately wrong in my life it's because I'm not doing what I should be. Not to say that I necessarily "doing" something wrong but just that it was time for my life to take a different course.

Answer 6

Spray your j!zz on the cookie of life and keep it held together.

Oh, i see. This question was just a clever ploy to give us all thumbs down.

Perhaps we could give a good answer if you elaborated on your question. Based on what is typed your life only "seems" to be crumbling down... what more can you do other than deal with it?

Answer 7

I live in a suburb of a huge city. I drive in to downtown and look at the homeless people living under bridges and digging in trash cans. It makes me appreciate what I DO have.

Answer 8

First take a deep breath. Reevaluate what's wrong in my life then start fixing it step by step. You can do it.

Answer 9

I talk to someone about how I'm feeling. Usually, they can detect something wrong, but it's important to find someone to be around and not be alone. Be honest and let your feelings pour out to someone you trust and can confide in. I feel alot better afterwards but will find something to do to keep myself busy and out of that mindset I was in!

Answer 10

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Answer 11

re-evaluate why things seem that way and figure out how to change it. reach out to others (friens/family) for support. Find a message board to vent on. Send me an email - I'll listen. :)