as a surprise for my lass after the babies born i am going to get erotic photos taken of myself. what kinda poses, styles themes, should i use or should i not bother.
2007-01-15 01:52:07 · 21 answers · asked by Outlawz 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you give her a present like that it would send her all the wrong signals because what she'll want is your support and love - not to feel you're going round acting like some kind of playboy.
What I would suggest is that you surprise her with a voucher to go and have a family protrait done with you two and the new baby to show how proud and excited you are to be part of the family. If you really fancy pushing the boat out maybe you could buy her a pampering session at a local salon hair/facial/massage etc so she feels good about herself before having her photo done. Women can worry they're a bit frumpy after giving birth because they have little time to spend on themselves so you need to focus the attention on her and how much you admire her - not trying to focus on getting her to adore you!
2007-01-15 02:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sorry hunny but the last thing she will want to see after the baby is born is you posing erotically! She has just squeeed a head out of the area you want to go! Give her cuddles and support her with the baby for the first few months and she will fall in love with you all over again.
good luck
2007-01-15 01:59:15 · answer #2 · answered by smudge 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
The others are right - it may be a nice valentine gift or whatever but your timing is way out.
I think a bouquet of flowers or a nice piece of jewelry would go down a little better if you don't want to end up in a divorce court (LOL)
good luck with the wee one!!
2007-01-18 21:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the kind of poses that would turn your wife on after the baby arrives would have something to do with you making dinner , vacuuming the house ,doing the shopping, giving her a massage , bringing her a bunch of flowers and a cup of tea That kind of thing !!!!!!! in the nude or not ...your choice !!! You are funny!!!!!
2007-01-15 07:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definately NOT bother. Prob gonna be the last thing she wants to see after she has a baby. What are u thinking lol? How about u surprise her and get serious, u know start changing nappies... take time off to help her with the baby etc etc . Go on!!!
2007-01-15 01:58:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
i dont think that getting photos of yourself is a wise adea at all.
It would be as though you are saying ....''look at me and how sexy I am''. She will be feeling big, stretched and tired and once you have a baby you feel anything but sexy.
She will also be vulnerable and emotional while her hormones settle.
Dont take this the wrong way but I think that its a selfish idea for a present but your heart is in the right place.
Instead may I suggest a present that is totaly about her.
Like a spa treatment designed especially for getting her body back into balance and her skin to firm back up. not to mention to relax her. or a nice family portrait, a memory that she can display with pride of your new family, for years to come.
2007-01-15 01:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by jens21angel 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you honestly think she's going to want to be reminded of what it was that got her up the spout - having just gone through the agony of childbirth?
I wouldn't bother if I were you. Spend the money on photos of the kid - she'll appreciate that more.
2007-01-15 02:46:52 · answer #7 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you're gorgeous but don't think erotic pictures of you is the thing you lass wants most at the mo!
2007-01-15 01:59:17 · answer #8 · answered by Jackie S 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
don't bother mate when a women has a baby she feels down you still feel fat and not good about yourself so seeing pics of you like that is the last thing she needs just stick to flowers and chocs and take her out for a nice meal when shes ready
2007-01-15 02:01:48 · answer #9 · answered by lorraine x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a funny question. You know, I've found that women don't appreciate erotic pictures as much as men, as their sexual interest is based more on feeling and emotion than visual stimulation.
2007-01-15 01:57:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋