I have a history of being a victim of bullying ect, so maybe it's just paranoia, but I can't seem to find people other than teachers who like me!! Teachers and parents like me from the minute they meet me but no one else can respect me. Apart from English, my grades are only mediocre. I'm no rebel but I like to have fun. My friends love me and say I'm loyal and trustworthy. I'm a teensy bit bossy but I'm very attractive what's wrong with me??!
2007-01-15 01:42:13 · 10 answers · asked by Cloudyheartgurl 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
You sound like a young me. When I was a young teen, I was popular with adults and not well-liked by most kids my age, mostly because my mom had raised me to act like a little adult, which put most of the kids around me off. If you're very mature and self-possessed around kids who are not, they'll go all group-think and "Not like us!" on your *** faster than you can blink. The good news is, as your peers grow up, they'll catch up to you in terms of maturity and accept you more easily for who you are. You'll probably have better friendships once you get to be a bit older. Hang in there!
2007-01-15 01:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by Danielle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like the first lady said, you are liked, but perhaps not by your peers. It's probably because of jealousy and the recognition that you are a very good person. Lots of times people like to tear down those they believe to be a social threat.
Being a teenager is not easy, but life will get better as our generation matures.
I hate to say this also, but perhaps it is that you are too nice. People do take advantage of those they deem to be weak, and so maybe you need to be a little tougher. Even if you come off as being confident and tougher than you really are, who's going to know???
2007-01-15 09:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by Yeva 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You say that teachers and parents like you and that you have friends. I don't think you are very disliked either.It's just a fact of life that not everyone is going to like us .If we changed so that one group would like us then another would have a problem. So it is best to be true to yourself so you will like you.As for the bullying these people like to pick on gentle souls I think because they see things in you that they are jealous of. Try not to act like a victim it just makes them want to bully you more.I wish I had some better advice on that one I know some people can be awful mean these days.
2007-01-15 10:00:00 · answer #3 · answered by Debbie O 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One of the real trials in this life is that we each often feel very alone and estranged from others. You mention your friends, so I guess you feel that you have some. (I often felt, and feel, that I do not) Think of the country song- "I'd rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I'm Not." Try to realize that you and YHVH are a majority, and no one else's opinion is worth much. If you are on His side you will be fine in the end, and will receive strength to bear your burdens until the end.
2007-01-15 09:49:32 · answer #4 · answered by hasse_john 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would go see a shrink. Maybe he can figure you out like maybe there is nothing wrong with you and you don't have anything else to think about except yourself. Get a hobbie or go to a bar.
2007-01-15 09:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by animalcrackers31 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound very disliked.
1. Teachers like you
2. Parents like you
3. Friends love you
It sounds like a full deck to me.
2007-01-15 09:46:16 · answer #6 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
YOU are what's wrong with you. It's you who doesn't like yourself because you're not satisfied with all that you already have. Start being happier with all of your blessing, and you'll see a change.
2007-01-15 09:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As Zeus said to Narcissus, "Watch yourself".
2007-01-15 10:04:47 · answer #8 · answered by Lirrain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with linda. You sound as though you are very much liked and loved!
2007-01-15 09:48:32 · answer #9 · answered by a_phantoms_rose 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to highschool
2007-01-15 09:55:13 · answer #10 · answered by tardis1977 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋