im recently sexually active and my boyfriend is abit older than me so i usually let him take the lead. i chose not to go on the pill because of possible side effects but my boyfriend dosent like using a condom. We have had unprotected sex before and i have come on my period since then. Although last week we were having unprotected sex but he swears he didnt *** in me, but my peiriod is late. Could i be pregnant?
2007-01-15 01:35:25 · 22 answers · asked by pixiexxpixiexpixie 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
im only 17 n my bf is nearly ten years older than me n we have only been together for a couple of months, and although he swears he didnt *** in me wen we had unprotected sex am not so sure. if i wer pregnant i couldnt get rid of it, but i dnt think he would stay with me- any advise?
2007-01-15 02:36:02 · update #1
hiya luv sorry 2 say but yes there is a ggd chance you could be pregnant i think the best thing 2 do is to get a home pregnancy test or 2 go 2 the doctors or a family planning clinic
hope everything works out how you want it to, please keep me posted x x x
2007-01-15 03:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by confussed blonde 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I'm afraid to say you could be. Any time you have sex there is always a risk that you could get pregnant whether you use protection or not. No contraception method is 100% safe so my advise it to be extra sure and be doubly protected. There are so many different versions of the pill etc I would suggest you go to the doctor and discuss your options.
I would also ask for a pregnancy test and if your boyfriend is older, is already sexually active and doesn't use protection, I would also ask to be tested for any sexually transmitted diseases. Being pregnant isn't the worst thing that can happen because of unprotected sex!
2007-01-15 01:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you could be. And after you take a test to find out (if you can't afford the test, go to Planned Parenthood. They will do it for free.), if you aren't pregnant, I hope this is a HUGE wake up call for you. Get some contraception (also, Planned Parenthood if you can't go to your own Dr.). Also, some information about STDs from unprotected sex. I don't care how old this guy is, if he's not willing to be careful with you, you can take it to the bank he wasn't careful with whoever he slept with before you. So you aren't the only two in that bed. If he got herpes, chlamydia or anything else from someone else he's exposing you with a "so what" attitude. Be smart, Be safe.
2007-01-15 02:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by Tina R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you could be pregnant, get a home test to find out. Also, use protection. Theres loads of options other than the pill or condoms. Ask your doctor about the implant or contraceptive injection
2007-01-15 01:43:14 · answer #4 · answered by NCbabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wont use condoms,dont have sex with him
Is he the one that will be having a baby? Will he stick around if you are?
The pill has been around for over 40 years,it safe,having a baby isnt as safe as using the pill.
He sounds very selfish to me,and as he's older he should know better,but you'll learn,lets hope its not too late !
2007-01-15 01:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by Pat R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. go and see your doctor. you need to speak to your doctor about contraception as well because there are more choices than the pill or condoms (although if your boyfriend wore condoms he would be showing a lot more respect towards you). you should both be checked for stds if your boyfriend is a bit older and has more sexual partners that he hasnt wanted to use condoms with.
good luck
2007-01-15 02:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Claire - Hates Bigotry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is every chance you could be pregnant even if ur man didn't come up you, you can still get pregnant from his pre come. always use protection if you don't like the pill u could try an implant, the coil or the depo injection. Also you need to be aware of std's get yourself checked out at ur local gum clinic. good luck
2007-01-15 01:47:33 · answer #7 · answered by nemo f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..Sorry But Yes.. There Is Always Pre*** And That Has Sperm In It Too... Use A Condom If Hes Your Boyfriend And Loves You.. Then He Would Be Save And Use A Condom...!! Be Smart!
2007-01-15 01:39:59 · answer #8 · answered by EnjoyLife1234 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is how babies are made.. of course you could be pregnant!
See a doctor to confirm your fears... (If buying off the shelf pregnancy test kits, remember to test on the first urination upon waking up in the morning as pregnancy hormones, if you are pregnant, are stronger and easily detected then...)
2007-01-15 01:43:51 · answer #9 · answered by Merri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I got pregnant this way.
The side effects of going on the pill are less extreme than the side effects of using no contraception - pregnancy!
Even if you aren't pregnant this time, you WILL get pregnant if you don't use protection, even if your bf does withdraw.
2007-01-15 01:52:12 · answer #10 · answered by Ricecakes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋