it is not right for me to check his mail box. but i did... coz i do not feel that much safety...
i found out he kept a folder with his ex-gf's name, and kept over 100 emails from his ex-gf. does that reall mean sth?
hiding is a kind of lying?
2007-01-15 01:18:54 · 11 answers · asked by Haruko 木易 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Keeping an ex-partners email really doesn't mean anything. Just because you split up with someone doesn't mean that you have to delete everything about that person from your life to be true to your current partner.
From your question it sounds like you are feeling insecure about your relationship with your boyfriend. It sounds like you need to talk to him about how you are feeling. Trust and communication are incredibly important in a relationship.
2007-01-15 01:36:31 · answer #1 · answered by Peter M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to identify the type of relationship the two of you have. It seems to me you're assuming you are in a monogamous, committed situation....when he might think otherwise. It's a possibility he believes his dating you is for pleasure only and no real friendship, which is why he has established a more permanent friendship with another woman (his ex). I think his attachment to her is very detrimental to what you perceive is a serious boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. But, it really depends on him and how he views his life with you. I would say you are not on the top of his list of priorities. Sorry.
2016-05-24 05:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that shows he's not honest with u,maybe he still loves his ex-gf,otherwise y he keeps so many emails in his folder.u r better ask him whether he still loves u or not but don't let him know that u've checked his folder.take time n patient to find out a solution.good luck.
best wishes.
2007-01-15 01:34:20 · answer #3 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boy is still hungup on his ex go find some-one new who will respect you and not lye to you.You need to have honesty in your relationship or there will never be any trust and trust is one of the most important things in a relationship. good luck always with your life. [myron]
2007-01-15 01:31:04 · answer #4 · answered by shymyron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's stupid to even stay with him because obviously he isn't over her and given the chance Ill bet just about anything he would take it. That is lying!
2007-01-15 01:24:42 · answer #5 · answered by Daniel B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay .. your right you shudnt be checking his mail and stuff but now that you did .. i think you shud ask him bcuz i mean thats kinda weird for him to have over a 100 mails from her!! if him and his ex-girlfriend are still friends than it kind of makes sense but if they dont talk than its not good .. it kind of means hes still not over his ex!!
2007-01-15 01:24:05 · answer #6 · answered by xochick18ox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
... and snooping is a kind of crazy bitchiness.
If you felt the need to check it, then you should leave him. And don't come to me on the rebound, cuz I would never trust yas.
2007-01-15 01:23:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. It mean he remember the good time and the mistakes he made. Plus not talking about it doesn't mean he's hiding it.
2007-01-15 01:22:26 · answer #8 · answered by my alias 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a really romantic guy or maybe he is starting a paper trail. Is she harassing him?
2007-01-15 01:24:24 · answer #9 · answered by running 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lying is lying. Cheating is cheating.
2007-01-15 01:26:56 · answer #10 · answered by ropemancometh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋