2007-01-15 01:18:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
I think it would be hard to regret a baby. They are wonderful!
2007-01-15 03:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I've not been so lucky. In my day, you'd better not think about having a baby unless 1) you were married 2) your career/job was developed and you had insurance. Our family is small - the females were not very productive for many reasons and I wish that I could have had four children. I was blessed with one - very late in my life - 33. But I believe that no one should be pressured into having a child. The ultimate caregiver is going to be the person who birthed the child and if they were not ready - you have opened a Pandora's box of emotional, physiological, mental issues that can last a lifetime. A "mature" woman knows when she is ready to have a child. I don't think I would have had it any other way. At 33, I was ready. I had a singing career behind me for the most part, I was well into my job, had insurance and a home and was able to provide for my child in many areas - not just physically. I didn't have a need to run around clubbing, and therefore I spent the majority of my time with her. I try not to do anything that I will regret - it does happen - but ultimately - you have to deal with all the pressures - nobody else.
2007-01-15 09:27:40 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was not pressured into having my first child however i was sexually abused by the father since i was on the pill i did not think that i could be pregnant it was not till i started to bloat out in the latter months < note i was 6 months and still getting a period > that i found out i was carrying a baby girl , typical of a woman abuser he wanted me to get rid of it but i refused, he left us when she was 6 months she is now 5 years old and i would never regret having her only thing i regret is that i never had the chance to finish off my Teens, and as for me i am a mother again i have my first born and my step daughter and now a bouncing baby boy of the name of Quinn and i was last year on the 7 of october that i married his father < not a woman abuser >
2007-01-15 10:10:58 · answer #3 · answered by Trudy Joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was pressured. Got pregnant 2 weeks later. One month later, he left. Claimed I was cheating on him. (TOTALLY UNTRUE).
My son is now 17. The best kid ever!!! THAT, I don't regret!
But his biological father, pays $27 a month in child support and has not seen his son. (That is a good thing, believe it or not).
YOU DO WHAT IS RIGHT FOR YOU!! NOT WHAT A MAN WANTS!
2007-01-15 09:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by Tracey LA 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you were not ready to have a baby you should have said NO and stuck to it.
Regretting it? You may regret the situation but HOW CAN YOU REGRET HAVING THAT SWEET LITTLE BABY?
2007-01-15 09:26:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Yes, once my wife drugged me up and made me have unprotected intercourse with her. She did get pregnant, and I really regretted letting her have her way with me. I probably shouldn't have taken it out on my wife while she was pregnant, but I love my kid the same. That was in '95 and while she (my wife) is gone, I cherish every time I have to change his diapers.
2007-01-15 09:24:59 · answer #6 · answered by Mattio 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I do not regret my son.
2007-01-15 10:23:04 · answer #7 · answered by LaLa N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope because i wasnt pressured into having my son :)
2007-01-15 11:24:52 · answer #8 · answered by Jemmax 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-01-15 09:21:10 · answer #9 · answered by Moje 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
not me...but if you are unsure do not give in...do not have a child just because someone else wants you to...good luck.....x
2007-01-15 09:34:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋