A good deal of guys tell me that they notice this with their woman; When i'm really nice and treat her good she doesn't care, and when i'm inconsiderate and treat her like nothing, she loves the ground i walk on...
What do they mean by this?? I really dont follow this advice but i would like your honest comments and advice to just explore what they mean by this...Thanks! =)
2007-01-15 01:07:19 · 7 answers · asked by SMD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
All comments/answers where great! i think i know the meaning of it now, thanks! ~_~
2007-01-15 02:07:07 · update #1
Well, if you're going for the co-dependant or seriously insecure type, then this advice is good. If you want a well adjusted girlfriend, then perhaps you should go for a more honest and straightforward approach.
2007-01-15 01:13:05 · answer #1 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when I was in a completely non-serious and mostly (not fully) sexual relationship. I was attracted to the second type of man. Why? Because I didn't want some snivelling boy (what I considered relationships to consist of at the time) or someone who's feelings would get hurt. I was rebelling. If you want a bad girl for a mutual use relationship or an insecure girl and that's just not right, treat her like crap.
If you're looking for a serious relationship with someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with, just be yourself and be natural. These other guys are not looking for what you're looking for or just don't get it which is sad too.
2007-01-15 09:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women really do like the jerks who treat them like trash, but those women have self esteem issues and are not good partners for a life long relationship. Be yourself, treat everyone with respect and you will have a long, healthy relationship with an equal partner.
2007-01-15 09:16:24 · answer #3 · answered by Beth B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's just a stupid bitter thing that guys like to whine about when they end up single. No, there's nothing about themselves that they could improve, the problem here is that they are just too NICE! Assholes always get the girl!
and to be frank I have no patience for it. Of COURSE being an asshole is bad and doesn't improve your love life. Anyone who tells you differently is still bitter over a bad breakup.
2007-01-15 15:13:02 · answer #4 · answered by Janelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not only women, men do it too. Not all but some people like the challenge and as they say the "the opposite attract",the less we get the harder we try to get it.
2007-01-15 09:21:17 · answer #5 · answered by SMB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means women are stupid! I love it when my husband is good to me. I think it's called brain damage when women act this way.
2007-01-15 09:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by Opie Tootie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women like a challenge. Period.
2007-01-15 09:15:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋