the other day and we used a condom but when i picked it up it was wet i thought it had split i took a pregnancy test the other day but it said negative so i took another and that said positive im really scared and dont know what to do i dont want to go to the docs bcuz im only 14
2007-01-15 00:50:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't stress. Take another test to see and make sure you follow all the directions properly. If this test is then positive consider your options.
2007-01-15 00:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by dancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
somebody asked y were u picking up the condom, (they have not a clue). I understand y, u were curious & u may have felt something went wrong & u were doing a smart thing. this was inside your body & u wanted to see if everything was on point.
Apparently, not I understand your predictament---U can go to a doctor w/out your parents permission. U can go to your local free health clinic....look in the phonebook & call around. Find out the hrs. of operation; and it would be a smart thing to do is to have them to check for STD.
Very important in this day & age. I always take potential sex partners (not many) there to check for everything. Either find out now or suffer later. I know it may be kind of embrassing for u but think of it this way. this person may only be in your life for a short period & won't be around when u r taking shots or pill for any std's u may get and if u get hiv/or aids. there is nothing that can be done to get your life back to normal......
2007-01-15 09:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by Spotlight 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok Hon...Here is what you need to do. Please go and get another Home test and if it should turn out that it has a Positive result, I then suggest you go and find an adult you can talk to. I realize you are scarrred and having to be honest with someone in your situation will be one of the hardest things you will have to do. However it is something you will need to do. Now if it turns out that you are not pregnant I strongly advise that you steer clear of having any intimate relationships. Your 14 hon with a great life ahead of you, and according to your "Question" you are not yet ready to handle the responsiblities of something that you are not yet ready for. Good luck to you hon...
2007-01-15 09:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by prophwarrior 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if you've has a positive test you will have to see someone about it!! Don't leave it too long, you need to think about all the options. Your GP can't say anything to your family because of patient confidentiality but you should talk to someone about it. If this is a genuine predicament I really feel for you. You can always email if you need to.
Take care x
2007-01-15 08:57:50 · answer #4 · answered by Nedster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are worried id say definitly go to the docs. It will save you money on expensive home-pregnancy tests, and they will give you a more acurate answer... You should get it checked out as soon as possible, becuase if you leave it too late it will be a lot harder to deal with.
Good luck
2007-01-15 08:56:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you need to tell your parents and go to a doctor. If you are pregnant you need all the support and education that is out there. Your parents may be upset and I'm sure they will, but your health and the health of your child are now the main priority. By the way, stop having sex, you are not responsible enough to being doing that yet.
2007-01-15 08:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by jim 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
usually a pregnancy test is correct when it shows positive. Go to a family planning clinic and let them test you. Then they can talk about options and if you are not pregnant, a way to stay not pregnant.
You really are to young to be having sex. Talk to someone at family planning. You can go to them even though you are only 14.
2007-01-15 08:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by jnine30 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to talk to someone you feel close to , maybe your mum or sis or best friend. Wait a few days, take another test. If still unsure go to the doctors. And please be more careful in future.
2007-01-15 16:47:16 · answer #8 · answered by myra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck tcwell you need to go see a doctor maybe to a clinic a health clinic in your town ....i believe at the clinic it is confidential...that's where Ur gonna need to start and i am sure they can help u yes 14 is a very young age to become a mother you just a kid yourself need to enjoy life a bit not get knocked up cause its very hard to raise children at age 14 good luck and tc
2007-01-15 09:05:20 · answer #9 · answered by blugeanie923 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really feel for you sweetie, cos you were careful and all, but the only way you are going to be able to be sure is to go and see your doctor, if you dont want to tell your parents, see if i a friend will go with you, someone you can trust, an auntie or cousin or something.......it's difficult but its the only way you'll be sure!
2007-01-15 08:55:29 · answer #10 · answered by J9 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋