If I am not pregnant I will be very happy it sounds like my bf wants to do what he should do first last. I am so nervous.
2007-01-15 00:42:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
he wants to have a baby but I am having second thought now because I hear his plans and it is a little backwords for me.
2007-01-15 00:52:25 · update #1
funny you knew what to do to get pregnant. you don't prepare well, do you?
2007-01-15 00:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by Kodoku Josei 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know I'm gonna sound like a parent when I say this but... you should have thought it out together first. You can still get a job with a company and not mention the pregnancy unless you really sure you are pregnant or showing! Many state jobs offer pregnancy leave for a while. He needs to have a job too, don't let him sit at home or work in a Mc Donalds or something. You will need a lot of money. Do you have insurance? Birth of a child in a hospital costs too much for out of pocket expenses! Extreme last resort is welfare.
2007-01-15 00:58:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Um, I am do not think you are in any position to have baby. First of all, you need to learn how to write properly, second, you HAVE NO JOB. You have no business bringing a child into the world if you are not able to financially care for it. And honestly I do not work my *** off everyday to pay your bills which is what will happen. Get a stable job, get a home, get married and then think about a baby. You are way too young.
2007-01-15 02:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by ShanaJ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok I was 16 when I first became pregnant she is now 13 I raised her alone because her dad is always in prison but I'm with another man I've had 3 kids with and he's a little backwards but a great dad here's what to do find a job quickly before you start showing you don't have to tell them you can always play it off that you didn't know and just make the best of it you can do it if I did it at 16 anyone can.
2007-01-15 01:06:14 · answer #4 · answered by fluttergirl2004 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in case you particularly do not want this toddler than you and your boyfriend could look into adoption companies. yet please supply this super quantities of thought. I have been given pregnant (unplanned) whilst i exchange into 19. i exchange into scared too... and then terrified when I found out i exchange into having twins! i presumed my mum and dad may be furious, yet they weren't in any respect. They have been fairly supportive and function under no circumstances been ashamed of me. I won't lie, your lifestyles would be greater good, your dating with you bf won't stay on the stress, yet i could not think of my lifestyles with out my little ones who're now 5 years previous. As for identifying to purchase a job, needless to say you at the instant are not showing yet; you at the instant are not required to tell your organization which you're pregnant (or may be pregnant) till the activity may be risky to the toddler. before you communicate an abortion, permit me ask you something. in case you knew your mum and dad have been to react with love and help and have been going that can assist you you and your toddler, might you nonetheless be questioning approximately an abortion? it form of looks like a poor reason to % an abortion merely given which you're afraid of mommy and daddy.
2016-12-16 05:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If youre not ready for a baby, dont do it...either give it up for adoption, or have an abortion. If you think him wanting this baby means that he's going to be there for the baby, youre fooling yourself. Its easy for us men to say, yeah have the baby, then when the baby comes, guess what? we can go on about our business, we can still go out and probably go out with your friends and sleep with them. Dont be a fool, get a job, get in school and dump this idiot who thinks having a baby is a good idea. Get a job, get in school, and dump this loser. Get a job, get in school, and dump this loser!
2007-01-15 00:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by INFINITE CONSCIOUSNESS 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell them your pregnant, get a job. You should have one anyway at 20.
2007-01-15 01:17:16 · answer #7 · answered by Maroo 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
To late for a job now! BF better get busy then!
2007-01-15 00:50:38 · answer #8 · answered by rich11 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Abortion. It is the solution, a child should be wanted, not forced upon some one.
2007-01-15 00:52:05 · answer #9 · answered by toxisoft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU ARE PREGNET U AND THE DAD SHOULD GET TOGETHER AND TELL HIM AND IF YOU OR HIM DONT WANT THE BABY U SHOULD HAVE THE BABY AND GIVE IT TO THE HOSPITAL THEA U CANT KEEP IT
2007-01-15 00:50:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be sure if you are or not.then think all possibilities you have.if you don't have a job can try to find one.if you don't have a prepare then ask your friend help
2007-01-15 00:58:16 · answer #11 · answered by vani_vani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋