2007-01-15 00:24:48 · 10 answers · asked by lets_fly_to_sky 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Teaching
well u can do it in two very simple ways--
i) start concentrating on present !
ii) start worrying about future !!
2007-01-15 00:29:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing I have found helpful is to remember that we can't change either the past or the future. How's that? Well, we all know we can't change the past - it's gone. However, we can't change the future either, at least not directly. How can you? It's not here yet! The only thing you can change is the present. It is true, the decisions you make today will affect your future - but they're still made in the present! It was always that way - decisions we made in the past affect the present. So, we're living with the results of successes and mistakes of the past.
But above all, remember that God is in charge! I have done the stupidest things in my past, and continue to today, and no doubt will do so tomorrow. But I know that God will work things out somehow. Things may not always be pleasant, but I know that He is there, and is the same yesterday, today, and forever.
2007-01-15 09:06:32 · answer #2 · answered by Gary B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to not think about them is with hypnosis. But I think that maybe you just need some therapy. talking about your problem could help and remember everything gets a little easier with time. It never goes away but we do keep going. Trust me I lost my only son. 16 years ago and if I hadn't allready had a baby girl I probablly wouldn't be here today. I will never forget and I can now teach people on grieving and lost. And someday I will see my son in heaven.
If you want help with dealing with the actual problem you can see counciing, or if you want it here, which I don't recomend becaues there are a lot of people on here that can be cruel an stupid. you can change and get a new yahoo id that no one else knows to ask the question.
2007-01-15 08:33:16 · answer #3 · answered by Shelly t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on taking up a new hobby / interest or aim for something to achieve. Hobby may be anything like spiritual, going to meet friends with whom u can share ur feelings ... Aim for short term goals and try working to achieve it. enjoy evry minute of life. do not bother abt the past. Future is in your hands. you can change it the way you want it. you have all powers to mould your future. Eat healthily & regularly. enjoy, whatever you do ......
2007-01-15 08:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by god 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take one day at a time and do what you must do infront of you. As time goes on you will find you are moving on without the past haunting you. But remember this is a process that will take time.
Good Luck!!!
2007-01-15 08:31:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want not to forget your past things is it possible for you to think and act for your past deformities and wrongs. ie yesterday will look over yester if the punishment of the past were given now Is it bearable? and if what about todays punishments.
2007-01-19 06:25:10 · answer #6 · answered by stevens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as shabby as it sounds take up somthing... try new things. or just completly get it out of your system and then try to focus on where your life is going in the future.
2007-01-15 08:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by e7daniel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself as busy as possible,i'm going through same thing and it's hard.
2007-01-15 08:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by remembering that we are gonna die
2007-01-15 08:27:29 · answer #9 · answered by come2turkey:) 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
by working on and living today...................
past is over.....and won't be back.............
2007-01-15 08:33:50 · answer #10 · answered by cork 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋