ok well the guy i asked out finally said yes..we've been going out for 1 day and 11 hours..he still hasnt told me he loves me..hes a shy guy and since we've been going out hes been much more talkative which is good..but he hasnt told me he loves me yet..should i tell him first?or wait till he tells me?does this mean he dosent cherish our relationship or does it mean hes not ready to tell me he loves me?according to his friend i am his first girlfriend.do i tell him i love him before he tells me or do i wait?and another good thing he called me last night and he said "are you glad we're going out?" and i said "ya r u?" and he said "ya"so he should be telling me soon..i keep thinking hes going to tell me cuz there is this huge pause in our convo..we might be hanging out today!!!so should i tell him i love him first or should i wait till he tells me?
2007-01-14 23:54:00 · 13 answers · asked by kiss the girl<3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dunnu to much to read, tell him or wait whatever . hope tis helped
2007-01-15 00:13:32 · answer #1 · answered by conan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'mma tell u like this don't be so happy to rush into love because that person you think is that right one for maynot be and your relationship is gone like that your hearts broken and your left tellin your on this. Little advice don't get to attached until u know for sure that he's the one and that he loves. My ex-gf broke my heart bout 9 months ago and it's hard for to even get in a relationship so i'm just sayin for experience wait before u start throwing the word love up get to know him better first then get in to all that, u feel me. This was just food for thought try not let that get u down if he doesn't tell u he loves u just yet, but don't use that shy thing as an excuse.....
2007-01-15 08:41:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it's late now, and the answer is useless but any way, i just wanted u to note that 1day 11hours is almost nothing. try not to think about "love in first sight" the majority of them are just crashes. give urself some time to think, know eachother better and deeper, and form real attachments. he will tell u if u do so, no matter how shy he is, but there's nothing wrong with u telling him first, it just boosts up the relationship. ur choice.
2007-01-15 08:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The words "I Love You" shouldn't be used so freely...after 1 day and 11 hours what happened that make you think you guys are in love...
2007-01-15 08:08:43 · answer #4 · answered by Tab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can tell him if u want to let him know u love him
or what traditional girls will do is wait for the guy to initiate everything, not forgetting his shy so if he cant make any move then i think it will take forever to start this...
if u really do love him, then let him know, he might be surprised that u told him instead of him doing that...
2007-01-15 08:03:36 · answer #5 · answered by starapproximate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey..saying "i love you" isn't really that easy and in your case, you guys have only been going out for 1 day and 11 hours! how can you expect him to say those 3 words to you in such a short time and even if he did say it..it might not be straight from his heart..give him some time..go out more often..have fun and when he feels that he really feels for you, he'll automatically say those 3 words..rmb,don't rush things..it won't get you anywhere..
good luck =)
2007-01-15 08:01:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude you cant truthfully tell him u love him after only going out for 1 day. if u tell him u will run him off. just go with the flow and see how the next couple of weeks go.
2007-01-15 08:03:33 · answer #7 · answered by aspen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time dear ! This is too fast to express love. The natural culmination of love should be marriage, and you need to think properly if both of you can carry this out. Take your time, understand him, judge him, know him and then decide !
2007-01-15 07:59:22 · answer #8 · answered by Varun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it actually depends in you.... that "if", you want him to say it first, coz in most cases girls want the guys to say it first, and it adds some romantic felling to it, but "if" you really cant stop yourself on telling him how much you love him then why hesitate?? seriously it isnt about he says it first or you, what matters is the amount of love that you felt for that person, and hey, you might regret it in the future... so God Bless! ;)
2007-01-15 08:06:00 · answer #9 · answered by nuno 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always wait til the guy says the "L" word first. Sometimes that word is frightening to guys.
2007-01-15 08:02:50 · answer #10 · answered by 2cool4fools 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋