A good guy friend of many years says he likes you a whole lot, but he cannot date you. You tell him you can still have a good friendship. He then tells you he has been confused and he lied to himself and to you. In the email he also says that he finds you and your personality attractive. You have made a very large impact on his life, and he hopes it will not make things awkward to tell you. What would you think?
2007-01-14 23:23:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wants you, and feeling you out how you feel about it.
2007-01-14 23:27:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he likes you a lot and he is a little shy about asking you out. maybe he thinks if the 2 of you get together and it doesnt work out then it's a friendship lost and he wouldnt want that.
maybe you should talk to him, or if you are both a little shy then mail him. i seriously think he likes you though and if you are both single and both like each other then go for it.
Good Luck xx
2007-01-15 07:29:57 · answer #2 · answered by sxe_gal_y2k3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of crap is that? "I like you but I can't date you"
He may as well be saying, "I want to get into your panties but lets not go thru all that courting stuff." "Oh yeah about our friendship? I've decided that getting a good lay is worth throwing it away, are you game?"
After putting it in layman's terms for ya I'm sure you will know what to do.
2007-01-15 07:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by babycattos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think this dude dosent know what the hell he wants...its up to you ,do you want to jump on his roller coaster and ride with him or would you rather lay low and see where he gets off....my english teacher had a big impact on my life.i also found him attractive,he had a awesome personality too.....that didnt mean i wanted to date him.stay friends life is complicated enough
2007-01-15 07:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by joejoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something doesn't sound right.If he likes you or loves you he will tell you the way it is...................if he has the slightest doubts, then come the lies, deceit, blah,blah ,blah. no matter what, friends are friends if they r open and honest aboutEVERYTHING in their relationship with each other
2007-01-15 07:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone said this to me, I'd probably just wondering why couldn't he date me and find that he is confusing as well..
2007-01-15 07:35:58 · answer #6 · answered by undercovergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you and afraid of asking you out.
2007-01-15 07:32:25 · answer #7 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think he might be hiding something? either emotionally or something has come up (another girlfriend)?
2007-01-15 07:30:18 · answer #8 · answered by lise l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it be and be friends for now.
2007-01-15 07:28:53 · answer #9 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to get into your pants. Watch him -- he's up to something.
2007-01-15 07:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋