I have a brother who is younger, nearly 7 years. Since I was in the 5th grade I took care of him. I helped him with his homework, made sure he had supper the works. My parents worked alot and we didnt see them much. My brother started calling me mom, and when my mom found out she treated me differently. When she left my dad, she only wanted me to come cause my brother wouldnt go without me. My whole life my mom mistreated me and I never felt like she was my mom. I got married at 21 told him I was unhappy at 22 (october), left him before new years. My mom started treating me more and more like ****. I had the flu and was sleeping. My brother came in and woke me up and said that mom was saying stuff. I went down there to clear it but she got mad and said I was a whore so I said at least I didnt leave my ex for another man. She ran after me pulled down my pants with a knife in her hands. I took my stuff and went to my dads....
2007-01-14 22:53:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
and stayed there for a few months until my step dad told me to come back. So I did and we were ok. We didnt talk to one another but I was fine with that. My ex started saying things to my mom and we fought everyday. He wouldnt let me talk to my friends or family. He told my cousin she was hot and wished he was with her then me. He took me off your bank account, he changed the locks so I couldnt get my stuff, he broke into my email, theres so much. I met a great guy and I am so in love with him. For once in my life I am so happy. But now Im being called a whore and stuff because Im seprated and pregnant with my new boyfriends baby. Ive been only dating for 6 months and I left my ex a year and a half ago.
Ive been nothing but a helpful and nice person. Got great grades in school the works. Am I a horrible person?
2007-01-14 22:58:07 · update #1
Im still married by law. But Im so happy with my new boyfriend and I love him dearly. Am I a horrible person because of this?
2007-01-14 23:00:18 · update #2
She has never or will mistreat my brother. She loves him dearly.
2007-01-14 23:05:12 · update #3
This is question has to do with my ex and it explains why I left him.
http://ca.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AqivFcS61Qi46MBKusnlUWDAFQx.?qid=20070111030523AAKF6dA
2007-01-14 23:08:18 · update #4
My dad is nothing like my mom, but I moved out and Im now leaving with my boyfriend.
2007-01-14 23:09:02 · update #5
Sorry I meant living with my boyfriend not leaving my boyfriend.
I moved as far as I could from them. Im in England, and Im really happy here.
2007-01-14 23:11:10 · update #6
You're not a horrible person, but you do need to get officially divorced. I think that will help ease some of the tensions.
2007-01-14 23:02:45 · answer #1 · answered by Morning Glory 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are not a horrible person at all you are your own person and you have the right to choose what you want. Your mom needs help and something is wrong with her if she is taking bad about you and getting a knife out on you. Now with your ex who cares I know that your married but you had a reason why you did what you did. Now your happy with someone and your pregnant with there baby you need to relax and stop worrying and enjoy this pregnancy with your new loving man. If you don't stop stressing your going to loose this baby. I wish you the best and If i had a mom like yours I wouldn't even let her see her grand baby.
2007-01-15 00:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for what you are going true. I hope that your brother is okay with your mother. Your mother needs some serious help as her doctor for any suggestions.As far as your personal life I would suggest get a divorce start the paper work as soon as possible that way when your baby is born it does not say on the birth certificate that you are married. I am glad that you have meet someone good luck with baby
2007-01-18 11:15:03 · answer #3 · answered by beenie 21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember this and keep this in your mind:
You are NOT a horrible person!!!
The ones that are horrible are your mom and your ex. Just start filing for divorce, and start a happy life with your boyfriend.
Move away far from those who are hurting you. It won't be possible to talk reasons to people who frame you from the beginning! You're great, and you deserve more than be treated so low like that.
You got our support here in Yahoo!Answer community!!
2007-01-14 23:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by Shaka Mahottama 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your mom seriously needs a check up at the head doctor. What she is doing is NOT right. You are a stunning person for taking care of your brother. Good luck with your pregnancy. How far are you now? I am now 4 months with baby number two.
2007-01-14 23:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sad to hear this... it is true some moms behalf weird,, but one question to you why did you leave your husband.., it is better you stay seperately with your boyfriend doing some work to earn your living...try to take a divorce from your ex husband.. and marry your boyfriend as your baby will require his/her father's name.. or your mom will tell your baby the same.. dont worry about your brother.. if you are well settled than you can get him along with you...
2007-01-14 23:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by Richa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not a horrible person a little confused maybe. Why you would move back to your moms is a mystery that doesn't sound very smart. also I hope you get your priority's strait in the next three month and realize that your baby comes first that means finding a SAFE place to live where no one hates any one.
2007-01-14 22:59:27 · answer #7 · answered by setter505 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You look Japanese, and have a swatsika on your name Ahh, you know in WW2 Nazi-Germany and Japan never coordinated any military or political manuevers during the war. They were merely associated with each other, not a true military alliance. They both considered one another inferior also.. So, why do you have a swatsika after your Japanese name?
2016-05-24 04:48:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not a horrible person. All you want is to be happy, and that something that everyone deserves. I suggest if you want your stuff back( it's prolly been awhile but...) you could prolly get it back, but going to court or sumthin. With ur mom, she was prolly just upset cause you didn't go to her house, and might i suggest getting a restraining order? if thing's aren't fixed yet.
2007-01-15 18:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by Tizmo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police
2007-01-14 22:58:11 · answer #10 · answered by chinas_chibi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋