My boyfriend tries to make me jealous by winding me up abt a girl he works with that fancies him how do i get my own back on him
2007-01-14 22:26:30 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you shouldn't get even with him! Simply, take him upstairs slowly undress him, handcuff him to the bed then tease him! Im sure he will stop eventually!
2007-01-15 00:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is not to get even with him. If you do the relationship will go even further downhill. Ask him why he does this and remember he comes home to you. Also tell him that if he would like to continue to get you wound up about this girl then he might as well finish it with you because you are worth more than that. but only say this provided that he is actually trying to make you jealous and not because you percieve it this way
2007-01-15 06:30:56 · answer #2 · answered by Natashya K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By showing him you're not in the least interested - he's getting at you by winding you up. Don't let him. Ignore him when he starts, or better still, take an interest. That will shock him and make him think twice!! He'll soon get fed up when you stop getting upset.
2007-01-15 08:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by blue_sapphire07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need to get even in any way, as that would bring you down to his level.. Hold your head high, tell yourself that guy is damn lucky to be with you and if he does actually do anything with this girl hes lost the greatest thing he ever had.. YOU. Have confidence in yourself, totally ignore his banter and when hes sees he gets no reaction and you couldnt care less he will stop .. and probably be a little worried you've lost interest in him.. that is the best way to deal with it hon.. and you will have your dignity 100% in tact. Be the bigger person. Good luck
2007-01-15 06:36:30 · answer #4 · answered by peachesandcream 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Geeeeese! Why are you even with him?! People who love eachother don't try and make eachother jealous... I don't know why you two are any different! The only way to make him mad is to finish him (cos you are worth more than that) and then to make yourself the best thing he could possibly miss - then he will realise he was being a tosser!
2007-01-15 06:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by brumbeep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who's to say someone isn't going to "fancy" you ? Life has a way of balancing things out if you just stand back and watch.
2007-01-15 06:38:05 · answer #6 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like it doesnt bother you-hes playing games and thats just juvenile-i would tell him if hes looking for a jealous type he has the wrong girl and tell him u dont have time for it-but if you want to take the childish route-find a hot guy and make him jealous
2007-01-15 06:30:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh i hate the jealousy games. I do not play them at all. If he starts the game just say you don't want to play the game. You'll go back and forth with this kinda BS and both of you will end up pissed off at each other.
2007-01-15 06:35:02 · answer #8 · answered by massure4hire 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. How much more even can you get? If that is too much for you. Tell him that you are going out with some friends, and make sure when they come to pick you up, there are hardly any females.
Or, just tell him he smells.
2007-01-15 06:31:56 · answer #9 · answered by EATTHEAPPLE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people do that in relationships,lie to their partners to try to se how far they can push them. Don't let it get to you as long as he is winding you up and there is nothing in it.
2007-01-15 07:26:10 · answer #10 · answered by mumstheword 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋