Ok there is this guy I like...I like him alot but he has had sex so many times....I still have my v-card....So is it bad for me to date him.....
2007-01-14 21:08:54 · 10 answers · asked by baby_kitty43 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are 2 scenarios that can happen here........number 1.........If you don't sleep with him soon, he will leave and go get it somewhere else. number 2............He will get it somewhere else while he is working on getting it from you. Neither is good.
2007-01-14 21:28:15 · answer #1 · answered by gin and juice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a matter of whether it is ok or not to date someone who has slept with many people. its about whether or not your trust them enough to give them that. if he understands that you want to keep it and he repects that then i guess it would be okay. it just depends on whether or not you are ok with it. if he has been with so many other gurls then what makes you think that he wouldnt leave you after you give it up to him? if you do decide to give it up to him make sure he gets tested. make sure you are on the pills and he has a condemn on! you dont want to end up pregnant. make sure that he is not pressuring you to do anything, because that is always a ba sart in a relationship. it may lead to abuse. but that getting a little out of hand. just be sure that he knows that you dont want to give it up. if he doesnt repect that then you should be with him and you should move on no matter how hard it is and how much it hurts. may i ask how you are? if you are younger than 18 i would say that you need to keep a good lookout. just be be on the safe side. well thats all i've got.
Good Luck Sweetie!
ambi
2007-01-15 05:18:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bend Over N Let Him C It
2007-01-15 05:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by Pimpsta© 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date him if you like him, but don't give into him sexually until you know he respects you for sure. Like make him marry you first if he really Loves you he'll wait and he will change his ways but it's up to you to make him earn that respect.
2007-01-15 05:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you look for a guy who is also having a v-card, then you have remain with ur v- card for ever.
2007-01-15 05:48:45 · answer #5 · answered by idsalex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its ok just don't let him presure u into sex if u don't want it be upfront with him he;ll respect u 4 that
2007-01-15 05:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by davo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, don't worry about his past.
Just be sure to be careful and use a condom!
2007-01-15 05:12:58 · answer #7 · answered by Rich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt, you are just a conquest to him.
2007-01-15 05:12:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel like it , go for it ..
2007-01-15 05:18:27 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's likely to b a player...just be careful but its up to u wat u do with him...if u like him a lot...and decide to do it...just don't regret it
2007-01-15 05:13:01 · answer #10 · answered by Forever happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋