Whats the best way to bounce back after a heart break?

Question

Please don't say be with friends...my so called 'best friend' hasn't been there what so ever, so can't relie on them really. Also, i want something for me ex to see me one day and think 'Oh god, what have a i lost?' Sorry if this is a silly way of thinking...it's just something that has got me through so far...the thought of him messing me about and regretting it...Although i ended he's put me through a lot with him confusing me...Thanks for your help x

Answer 1

They best way to bounce back is to acknowledge the pain. Take a holiday (on you own if poss) where the only thing you need to do is read a good book, plan your life or decide btw the blu and red sarong.

You don't need to be looking for someone else yet, there's plenty of time. Work on yourself and your future even if itsonly two days ahead. What you need to be is doing so well rumours get back to him.

It happen with my past love. B4 I went away was always calling. Came back for hols he didn't get a single phone call. Since I ditched him early 2005 I have had a sizable payrise, bought two houses, changed my car and been on 5 non-European holidays.

The last time he saw me, he commented on the car and on how well I looked. Of course I was pleased cos he looked like shite.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Good for you for ending it if that is what you decided was the best thing to do. As far as bouncing back I think it goes through phases of feeling angry, sad, confused, annoyed, frustrated, and doubting yourself and your decision... that is normal though and I think the best thing is to look after yourself and do things that make you happy so that the focus is on you and not him, or the past relationship.

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Answer 4

I know exactly how you feel. I split with my gf just before Xmas because we hardly saw each other and I was the 1 to end it. She didn't come round my house for 2 months and we weren't together (sex) between that time either. I don't know why but she said it was because she just didn't have time and was always tired as she owned her own business working with horses. Now she's with this guy I used to hang around with years ago and he lives 200 yards away from me and she's there most of the time. I just don't understand why. Sometimes people just change. best thing to do is smile all the time and just try and avoid ur ex. makes it easier believe me. Hope this helps knowing that your not the only one in this position and sorry I couldn't answer question properly

Answer 5

You can't 'bounce back' if your heart really has been broken - you have to accept that getting over a serious relationship takes time. Nonetheless, you can take steps that will at the very least help you feel better - and the start of a year is a good time to think about it. It's the usual classic list - get a new interest (evening classes, dancing etc), get a new job (update that cv) get fit (join a gym, start a new sport), change your look (clothes, hairstyle etc), book a holiday (to give yourself something to look forward to). Don't expect any of them to cure your feelings - but they will distract you and some of them have long-term life improving elements. Good luck x

Answer 6

Have your hair done. Shop for clothes. Go out and have
some fun. It is hard. But I have found it works for me. You
will be crying on the inside but laughing on the out. Eventually
you will get through this and remember he DID love you once.
If he can see you going out and enjoying yourself he may well
think what he is missing. But by then you probably won,t want
him anymore. I,m just wondering why you ended it?

Answer 7

the best way to come back from a heart break is to not think about the person and move on go out and have a gd time

Answer 8

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Answer 9

no need bounce back yet ,take a Time out for you. same as Iam doing.

Answer 10

Join a gym, get yourself a killer body and a new fella and wait for his jaw to drop when he sees ya.......best medicine ever!!!