2007-01-14 20:56:34 · 16 answers · asked by stars52006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Confidence is sexy. No matter how you think you look, if you think that you are attractive and a good person, others will pick up on that.
2007-01-14 20:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there - you can be chubby and gorgeous you know! It is all in the eye of the beholder. What you need to remember is that in the end people like you for who you really are and not what you look like. You will be loved by many people in your life for the person that you are - the whole package that makes up you. If other people don't like the package that is you, maybe they are not worth the interest.
2007-01-15 05:05:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the conclusion would be obvious. I'd think I was chubby the entire time and never ask the person out. BUT, on the other hand, I could work out a little and impress myself before anyone else.
2007-01-15 04:59:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and confident in who you are. If he's that shallow to not date you because of your weight, then you're better off without him. You don't really know how he feels unless you ask him about it. A lot of guys find it attractive, but more guys find confidence attractive. If you're happy with who you are inside and out then don't change yourself so some guy will like you. If you want to lose weight to gain confidence then go right ahead, but don't change who you are for some guy.
Love you and maybe he'll learn to do the same.
Good Luck,
-.-'
2007-01-15 05:06:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with everyone who said "ask him" and i also agree with everyone who said that your appearance doesnt matter. your confidence is up to you. BE YOU!! BE STRONG!! BREATHE DEEP and SMILE everyday. the people who told you to work out, theres a better way to say it. if you feel you are chubby, and youre not ok with it...then you have to fix it. however, if you are happy with who you are, you just want the guy....then dont worry about the pounds. you only live once. do it how you want. :)
2007-01-15 05:02:58 · answer #5 · answered by Doleyoley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
If you carry an aura of confidence about yourself, NOTHING is more beautiful than that. Be sure in your body. Be sure in yourself. YOU know you're a beautiful woman, YOU know you're a wonderful person, YOU know you have potential.
If he doesn't see that, it doesn't matter.
Don't change yourself for a man. Change yourself because you want to do it for yourself.
A rose by any other name would still smell as sweet.
2007-01-15 05:02:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being one I could tell you that if he's not flirting with you or eying you. He's probably not attracted to you sexually. Anything you do keep in mind that desperate is a big turn off.
2007-01-15 05:04:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't always judge a book by a cover, I would try and find out from a friend of his, if he does like women who are big and if not, he isn't worth it!
2007-01-15 05:00:22 · answer #8 · answered by Corrine L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose weight so I would have SOME hope for happiness.
2007-01-15 04:59:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love yourself and he will love you. if he doesnt then his just the type of guy who's into girls and bikini's. This type is not worth it and will eventually break your heart.
2007-01-15 05:02:04 · answer #10 · answered by gucciRUSH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋