ok...Look its not that bad...I was talking to one of my friends boyfriends and she got mad...well later that day he calls her and says he is breaking up w/her because he likes some one else and she asked who and he said that he likes me....
2007-01-14 20:47:10 · 25 answers · asked by baby_kitty43 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not that bad? who you're trying to kid here? what sort of a friend are you? there is more to this story than you are telling us ... take her boyfriend and leave her alone, clearly he himself is also not worth it if he can mess around with his girlfriends friend - you deserve each other .. oh - here's a free look into your future ... your relationship will not last, because you are together through double betrayal ... the wheel turns honey ... and guess what? if it does not turn fast enough, there are people who will MAKE IT TURN faster - so keep your eyes open ... you can't be too popular right now - shame on you ...
2007-01-14 21:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by Bite Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not that bad? from where I sitting it looks horrible...Don't even put the word "friend" in the same sentence with you in it. Because a friend is definately not what you are. If a friend did that to you what would you say? how would you feel? ever thought of that? friend's boyfriend is a no go area. You are a back stabber and much more. As for the so called B/friend he's an ***. And you know what, he's going to do the same to you. Karma, Karma. I think u should forget the Dog and concentrate on ur friendship if it means anything to you. and stop behaving like a B*tch.
2007-01-15 05:02:12 · answer #2 · answered by Thato 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's "not that bad" to you but imagine how you'd feel if you were dating a guy that you really liked and she did this to you. You wouldn't say it was "not so bad" then, right?
She's gonna be really mad at you. This might end your friendship. Part of it is his fault: just one phone call made him like you so much and dislike her enough to break up with her? He should have broken up with her, taken some time and then pursued you. That's the mature way to do it (if there even is one).
You should have told him this (take some time) and refused him until your friend was over him. Think about it: Guys will come and go in your life but this friend will be around much longer. Why risk that friendship for some guy? You might have done that but realize that you brought this on yourself. He may be the principle cause of all of this but you don't have to be with him and make it worse.
Also, how do you know that this guy won't drop you as soon as he meets another girl? He might be that type of guy. If he is, you're not special to him, you're just the girl for right now.
This might be your first experience with a real player. Learn from it.
2007-01-15 04:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't see anything wrong with dating someone who was seeing your friend, but look at the situation. He is dumping her for someone else. What's that say about him? He isn't a guy who can stand on his own.. I would never date a guy who broke up with someone for me. He'd always be looking to better deal you. And if that isn't the case, and you aren't even thinking of dating him anyways, then your friend would have to understand that you had nothing to do with it, and try to move on. If she's a good friend, she'll understand. I'd just tell her that it was probably better that she find out what he's like sooner, as opposed to later. But I doubt your friendship would survive if you do want to date him. Think of how hard it would be to see someone you care about being with your friend, taking your time away from that friend, especially when you need that friend most to help you deal with a break up.
2007-01-15 04:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by t.larae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy likes 'you' then there is nothing much that your friend can do about it, exept thank her luck that he had the courage to break up with her and was not two timing her or cheating on her.
i think he did her and himself a favour coz its worse if he would phisically be with her but have his mind on you !
And if you realllly love your friend ,dont go out with him,unless she gives you a full hearted permission to do so. now its upon you to decide where you wana take your relationship with the guy and how much you love him as well.(just get to know him better though,he could be an assshole with you too) Time will soften things up..so give it some time before you respond to the guy..
2007-01-15 05:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends wouldn't do that to another friend.
So what would I say? I'd say that she is a good friend and any guy that would leave her is a jerk and you aren't into jerks. Then laugh in his face together. He has no class, and if you date him, you have none either. Just my 2 cents worth.
Now go be a good friend!
2007-01-15 04:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how imporatnt ur friend is to you. If you really like the guy then you could always try having a chat with your mate to explain that you like him and that you're nothing to do with their break up is she gonna be able to forgive you if u go for it with him?
2007-01-15 05:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by bex b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot take something that does not belong to you in the first place. Women tend to blame one another when in fact this guy has free will choice.
2007-01-15 05:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess they were breaking up anyway. so it's not like you were the sole cause of their breakup although you were the catalyst.
in general, you do not speak to your friends' boyfriends unless you know they are:
1) not interested in you cos their girlfriends are a whole lot hotter than you
2) see #1
same rule works for us guys, if we treasure their friendship (over hottie).
2007-01-15 04:57:19 · answer #9 · answered by lsl4x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he said he likes you it doesn't mean you have to take him. You do have a mind of your own, right?
If you do "take him away" then the only thing you can say to your friend is "goodbye".
2007-01-15 04:54:43 · answer #10 · answered by Caramella 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋