my boyfriend has told me numerous times that he is still good friends with all of his ex girlfriends except for like one and that doesn't bother me what does bother me however is the fact that he told me that ALL of his ex's regret breaking up with him. he wants me to move in with him soon and i don't know if i can handle his ex's calling him all the time. is it wrong that i feel this way?
2007-01-14 20:30:18 · 10 answers · asked by nicole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think its wrong that you feel that way. i would feel the same way if i were you. does he know that it bothers you? you should tell him. he can't fix the problem if he doesn't know what it is. and it kinda sounds like he told you that all his exes regret breaking up with him to make you jealous. but that's just my opinion.
2007-01-14 20:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he doesn't stop having contact with these ex's than he will be having a new ex to contact soon. You. It seems the only way to know if this guy loves you or not is to be his ex.
2007-01-15 04:40:44 · answer #2 · answered by Chillypepers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you can't handle the ex's calling, so you won't move in. if he really wants you to move in, please dela with it. ask his exes to call his cell instead.
men tell you his exes are crazy on him or regreat to lose him, because he makes you think he is good catch. come on, you don't always believe what men say all the time. be smart!
just let him to choose his ex calling or you laying down his bed for everynight. ask him to choose, then you will be fine.
good luck
2007-01-15 04:38:15 · answer #3 · answered by Tracy But 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all. Think of it this way, would he want your ex's calling you all the time.
2007-01-15 04:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by Becky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with your feelings if you listen to them.
what are you saying that you don't know if you can handle it? Is it that you don't trust him? It is preferable, if your financial condition and you lust allow you to live separately until he makes a commitment of marrige with you.
You may be just the next in line, or you may be his true love. and he yours.
2007-01-15 04:40:28 · answer #5 · answered by sodajerk50 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Out of respect to you he should tell them to stop calling! If this creates a problem I would tell him that you will not be moving in until this is resolved.
2007-01-15 04:39:13 · answer #6 · answered by LSD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can have female friends without ******* them just to let you know, but I wouldn't like them calling all the time. Just talk to him and see if he can stop it. If not, don't move in.
2007-01-15 04:44:22 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a normal feeling to get jealous still coz why cant he just move on w/o them... i mean, you ask him, if you are still good friends w/ your ex, will it be OK for him too? .....
2007-01-15 04:42:40 · answer #8 · answered by fashion時尚嬰孩玩偶doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Becky...
The worst thing you could do in this situation is to move in with him because when you come home from work, I guarantee that one of them will be in YOUR Bed!!
2007-01-15 04:43:41 · answer #9 · answered by Biotech Boy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...is not...
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2007-01-15 04:39:45 · answer #10 · answered by right choice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋